Anybody else just fed up?

I am completely fedup today, went to bed feeling down and woke up and cried this morning, not sure why! I am uncomfortable, find it hard to turn over in bed and just want blump to be here!!!

My oh is in RAF so live miles away from any family, mine are in northern ireland and don't know when to get my mum over, think we will just call when I go into labour and she can get on next best flight and OH's family are nearly 4 hrs drive away.

Hate feeling down and my anxiety is doing my head in!!! Some days he moves loads and other days he's quiet and it freaks me out, don't know how many times I've called the assessment centre (thankfully they're really understanding) blump hurry up and come!!!


 
My oh is in RAF so live miles away from any family, mine are in northern ireland and don't know when to get my mum over, think we will just call when I go into labour and she can get on next best flight and OH's family are nearly 4 hrs drive away.

I know how you feel hun but its the other way round for me - my OH is RAF too, we're posted in NI atm and all family are in England :( luckily were going back on the ferry tonight to see them for a week one last time before I give birth. I'ts only now I'm getting pissed off that I'm 31 weeks pregnant and traveling a 10.5 hour journey but its either that or dont see our family :( where are you based at the moment hun?

The only thing I am getting so fed up with is the tiredness :( I feel like I'm 100 years old :( Instead of getting better or getting the energy peak I've been promised, its just slowly gotten worse throughout the whole pregnancy. Only got told I was anaemic after my 28 week blood and I thought I can't possibly feel much more tired than this but I do. If I whinge about anything its not having any energy at all! When I first got pregnant I planned to work until I was 36/37 weeks, absolutely no chance!! I only work 16 hours a week and Im seriously struggling to do that :( I'm staying till I'm 34. xx
 
I have just read throught his thread and thank god i am not the only one feeling this way, after feeling so unwell for the past 6 weeks i am well and truly fed up. I just want to enjoy things again, simple things like sleep, food and getting excited about going out. I really wanted to enjoy this pregnancy and i did up until i got to about 24 weeks now i cant wait for it to be over.
 
I Am so glad I am not the only one feeling this way. When I sit & think about how fed up I am, I think stope being selfish Stacey. But I think when everyone around you is having such a good time I get so jealous. I want to get dressed up. I hate seeing gorgeous skinny people walking around that sends my insecurities through the roof & that's enough to make me want to cry for days. I suppose it doesnt help when my husband is not being very supportive at the minute! Men...:lol:
 
With you all on this! Although I consider myself quite lucky OH is at home with me and only works 20 minutes away.
However I've always been one for looking nice, clothes, hair, makeup, watching my weight but now its really really getting me down. He works as a doorman Fri-sun nights and I'm starting to get a bit insecure about him seeing all these gorgeous girls walking around n trying to chat him up, whilst I'm at home, fat, stroppy and exhausted all the time. It's driving me crazy to the point I've sneakily looked at his phone and guessed his FB password just to check. Of course there was nothing and I felt guilty as hell afterwards but I'm just so fed up.

Only 5 weeks left to go and I'm praying she'll come early but I haven't got a track record of being lucky so I know I'll go a full 42! :( xxx
 
With you all on this! Although I consider myself quite lucky OH is at home with me and only works 20 minutes away.
However I've always been one for looking nice, clothes, hair, makeup, watching my weight but now its really really getting me down. He works as a doorman Fri-sun nights and I'm starting to get a bit insecure about him seeing all these gorgeous girls walking around n trying to chat him up, whilst I'm at home, fat, stroppy and exhausted all the time. It's driving me crazy to the point I've sneakily looked at his phone and guessed his FB password just to check. Of course there was nothing and I felt guilty as hell afterwards but I'm just so fed up.

Only 5 weeks left to go and I'm praying she'll come early but I haven't got a track record of being lucky so I know I'll go a full 42! :( xxx
 
If OH soritzes a bit of aftershave on for work I automatically think he's having an affair :lol::lol:
 
I've just resorted to the trusty leggings & longer vest tops.

That describes all of my outfits! Today it was black leggings, black vest! Not a great idea when it ended up being 28 degrees and my clothes were soaking up all the heat!

Haha I don't have to worry about OH having an affair... He's stuck on a boat with a lot of men, not a woman in sight! He just doesn't see women the whole time he's away, then he gets home and he's stuck with fat miserable me!!! Poor guy...

I can't wait to get dressed up again! It's my uni graduation in november, so hopefully if LO comes early I'll have over a month to recover, then I can wear a nice dress and... Let's not forget... HEELS!!!!!!! Oh how I miss wearing heels, stupid massive ankles! Mine look like they're broken because they're so constantly swollen!

xx
 

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