Anybody else just fed up?

[stacey_lea86]

This pregnancy is so draining, I am so fed up it is unbelieveable! I feel huge & baby feels like a whopper. I am always uncomfortable; to the point I'm in tears.

Constant back ache, pelvis ache (spd), always feeling like parts of his body are about to pop out my foo foo or bottom.

I'm so tired all day long, I could sleep for England right now.

Constantly agitated, don't know if I want to be walking, sitting, sleeping. Not sure if I am thirsty, hungry or just bored. I have ants in my pants from the minute I wake up to the minute I go to bed. Even then my brain is swirling around!


I Know it sounds so selfish. But I feel so unattractive, I would just like to be in my normal clothes I have been very insecure just lately. I am fed up of not being able to socialise & OH has not made any effort to do things with me that I can do like the cinema or going for pedicures so I've just been designated driver for the summer season!

I am scared about giving birth in the German hospital. Scared they will not take note of what I want during labour. They also perform something during the pushing stage (Can't remember the name) which my English midwife has said on no terms to let them do so. They push your baby down whilst you push & can leave you bruised, cause placental abbruption & things & that has frightened me alot!

The army has not helped with us not knowing if OH is going to Afghan after the baby is born or not.

Most days I just want to start an 'Evict baby G mission' but I know it is too soon & that would be utterly selfish of me. I am hoping he comes sooner being with how I have been feeling naturally as of late!

Sorry for the essay. I hope I am not the only one feeling like this. I need a huge kick up the backside & a hobby

 

[Chookette]

Stacey I know exactly how you feel. Except my OH is not in the army...

Just got my car stuck in a car park because somoe considerate person parked their car right up to my driver side so I could not get in... Had to get my OH out of work to come and get in the car to move it for me... Am going to start using mum and baby parking from now on..... Do not care if the little one is still inside me... grrrrr

Am wanting to give up work now too because my brain cannot take anymore of it.... Am I still have two more weeks then you....

Am sure it will all be worth it in the end... but just for today or the next few days I have had enough...

 

[stacey_lea86]

Stacey I know exactly how you feel. Except my OH is not in the army...

Just got my car stuck in a car park because somoe considerate person parked their car right up to my driver side so I could not get in... Had to get my OH out of work to come and get in the car to move it for me... Am going to start using mum and baby parking from now on..... Do not care if the little one is still inside me... grrrrr

Am wanting to give up work now too because my brain cannot take anymore of it.... Am I still have two more weeks then you....

Am sure it will all be worth it in the end... but just for today or the next few days I have had enough...

Aww bless you. I do not even attempt to park in the German car parks, simply because the ticket machine is on the left hand side & it is a difficult mission when not pregnant so I tend to park in wiiide open spaces with no ticket machines!

I hope you have a better day tomorrow chick! It's not nice feeling so agitated all the time! xx

 

[Sarah13]

I'm fed up too, want to be myself again, but dreading the baby coming so in no rush just now, it can stay there til 10 months if it likes! Although I'm desperate for some alcohol and sex!

 

[roxane 1985]

i am feeling exactly the same as you, ive had a few tears which is not like me

and feeling ike i cant cope,not to mention how scared i am of going into labour again

ive just moved 200 miles from my family to be with my partner so i always feel very alone and feel i have nobody totalk to about how i am feeling as ive nobody around really or anybody who is feeling what im feeling

 

[stacey_lea86]

I'm fed up too, want to be myself again, but dreading the baby coming so in no rush just now, it can stay there til 10 months if it likes! Although I'm desperate for some alcohol and sex!

I would be so lucky for my OH to stroke my shoulder at the minute. I've forgotten what happens during sex!

 

[stacey_lea86]

i am feeling exactly the same as you, ive had a few tears which is not like me

and feeling ike i cant cope,not to mention how scared i am of going into labour again

ive just moved 200 miles from my family to be with my partner so i always feel very alone and feel i have nobody totalk to about how i am feeling as ive nobody around really or anybody who is feeling what im feeling

Ahh hun, I cry everyday. Simple things like not being able to get comfy on the sofa to watch soaps. Sends me into a frenzy!

I know how you feel. I live in Germany, all my family is back in the UK. All I have is a few 'army wife' friends and OH & that's it!

If you ever want a chat just PM me xxx

 

[roxane 1985]

I'm fed up too, want to be myself again, but dreading the baby coming so in no rush just now, it can stay there til 10 months if it likes! Although I'm desperate for some alcohol and sex!

im with you on the alcohol - the sex can wait, lol, i couldnt be anymore turned off lately haha

 

[Sarah13]

I'm fed up too, want to be myself again, but dreading the baby coming so in no rush just now, it can stay there til 10 months if it likes! Although I'm desperate for some alcohol and sex!

I would be so lucky for my OH to stroke my shoulder at the minute. I've forgotten what happens during sex!

So have I! Apparently the baby makes it too strange, so frustrating!

 

[stacey_lea86]

I'm fed up too, want to be myself again, but dreading the baby coming so in no rush just now, it can stay there til 10 months if it likes! Although I'm desperate for some alcohol and sex!

I would be so lucky for my OH to stroke my shoulder at the minute. I've forgotten what happens during sex!

So have I! Apparently the baby makes it too strange, so frustrating!

I've not even got that excuse thrown at me. All I get is ' I thought we were closer than just sex' God knows what movie he stole that liner from!

 

[Chookette]

My OH has been really understanding. I have not had any want or need for sex at the moment. the few times we did try was very difficult for me so we just gave up... Hopefully will be fine after baby comes and I have healed....

 

[Monkey]

I have had enough of the pain, no sleep due to discomfort and not being able to do "normal" things. I'm also over worrying about her when she doesn't move much.

Having said that, I have enjoyed the pregnancy as it's such a special thing and I am scared out of my wits about screwing up when she is born.

 

[ft90]

I'm feeling a it fed up as well now. Life just seems to be dragging on! I just found out yesterday that my OH won't be back from offshore until a week later than he was meant to be home around the 8th, but now it won't be until the 15th. Just when I thought I wouldn't have to be doing everything myself for much longer!

I know what you mean about feeling unattractive. I'm dying to get back into my normal clothes! I have one wardrobe in mine and OH's room that has the clothes that fit me now, and then in the nursery (which is bigger than our room) we have our huge main wardrobe that has all OH's clothes, and then my regular clothes... I can't help but keep looking in there at my old things! And I've got a bookmarks folder on my computer of different clothes I'm going to buy for the winter!

I don't think that helps with the time dragging on though!

I feel like I need a hobby too!

xx

 

[stacey_lea86]

I have had enough of the pain, no sleep due to discomfort and not being able to do "normal" things. I'm also over worrying about her when she doesn't move much.

Having said that, I have enjoyed the pregnancy as it's such a special thing and I am scared out of my wits about screwing up when she is born.

They grow so quickly during tri 3 that they can't move as much, so try not to worry hun!

I'm sure you won't screw up. Once LO is here you'll get right into the swing of things! xx

 

[stacey_lea86]

I'm feeling a it fed up as well now. Life just seems to be dragging on! I just found out yesterday that my OH won't be back from offshore until a week later than he was meant to be home around the 8th, but now it won't be until the 15th. Just when I thought I wouldn't have to be doing everything myself for much longer!

I know what you mean about feeling unattractive. I'm dying to get back into my normal clothes! I have one wardrobe in mine and OH's room that has the clothes that fit me now, and then in the nursery (which is bigger than our room) we have our huge main wardrobe that has all OH's clothes, and then my regular clothes... I can't help but keep looking in there at my old things! And I've got a bookmarks folder on my computer of different clothes I'm going to buy for the winter!

I don't think that helps with the time dragging on though!

I feel like I need a hobby too!

xx

Sorry to hear he's coming back a week later hun. I know how that feels at the moment. Everyday for the past few weeks we've had 'yes Afghan, no Aghan, yes Afghan, no Afghan' with the odd 'Find a birthing partner or NO Afghan' thrown in. Which frustrates me as he wants to go & I also want him to go.

I threw out ALL my regular clothes when I was 15 weeks. We knew we were moving, so I thought sod it. Throw EVERYTHING away & it is an excuse to go out & have a mega spree once he's born!

But I just feel like a frump. Can't seem to look nice at all!

I'm thinking of ordering a nail course to do at home once the LO's are back at school & I have something else to think about!

xx

 

[ft90]

Must be awful to have that much uncertainty. I guess I'm lucky in that I know he'll be back in the next couple of weeks, and a month before LO is due. I'm just tired of having to do everything, with my SPD it's a nightmare trying to tidy the house and trying to walk everywhere with my crutches because I don't drive!

We just moved as well 6 weeks ago, but I couldn't bear to throw away my clothes! I don't need any excuses to shop! OH had a go at me when we were moving in and I was unpacking my clothes. We bought a massive wardrobe from ikea to fit everything in, and I was trying to leave some space in there... Then OH asked me what I was doing, and I said "well... leaving space in case I buy more clothes..." He went mad shouting at me hahaha! He said he never would have spent £700 on a wardrobe if he realised I would just expand into whatever he gave me!

Does he not know me at all?! Haha!

I feel like a frump as well. I'm struggling with most maternity clothes, because at 21 I want to look my age, and I feel like most maternity stuff is aimed slightly older so I can't find things that suit me!

A nail course might be a good idea! I just keep buying books! But I've just finished a 3 year law degree so I don't want to read anymore!

xx

 

[Sarah13]

Ft90 know what you mean with the lack of maternity clothes. Last time I was only 20 and there was even less around, I felt like a middle ages women! This time is just as bad, I only wear black so not much to chose from, I've lived in a bigger sized pair of trackies and black vest tops most of the time! I've found accessories help to keep you style, does get you down a bit though, esp on a night out, not like you can even get drunk to forget! I can still get in my jeans but they really hurt the bump when I sit down! And as for a jacket, there's no way I'm buying a new one, the bump can just get wet for the next few weeks since winter has already arrived in Scotland!

 

[stacey_lea86]

German fashion is waaay behind anyway. So to throw maternity clothes into that equasion is just horrendous! I've just resorted to the trusty leggings & longer vest tops. Although I am still in my jeans all the agitation I get I can't be bothered to wear them!

I've had the children off school for 6 weeks, so they have kind of kept me busy. Stressed me out but at least I am busy. I dread them going back to school next week. I will be alone all day!

 

[beckibooxx]

I Know how some of you ladies feel... Im almost 33 weeks and im already fed up! lol
i to have SPD and in constant pain, i cant wait till hes finally out now... i look like a beach whale, which is very depressing, i cant wait to just lose all this weight (hopfully) :/
im never having kids after this lol (well )

 

[saze]

yep x