Elliellie
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I really need some help in dealing with Isaac's sleep. He's never been able to stay asleep anywhere but on me & needs a lot of rocking to sleep. Because I was ill recently & have had a lot on I just let him sleep on me day & night as I just needed him to sleep somehow. Bad i know, but since he was born he's woken every few mins if I put him in his own bed & I got to the point where I just needed to sleep. Anyway, he's 5 months now & i know i cant carry on with him sleeping on me all the time so I decided I'd put aside some time now to trying to help him self settle & sleep in his cot. Today was the first day, I'd decided to go for pick up put down approach but it's just been so awful. I was really geared up for it, read the books & was looking forward to getting started. I began with his morning nap, spent 2 1/2 hours picking him up & putting him down & he cried hysterically & didn't sleep at all. Gave up & fed him at the normal time & played a bit, then tried again for his afternoon sleep & he went off a couple of times but jolted himself awake straight away & then did pick up & put down again for another hour & he got in such a state with crying he was choking & struggling to breath. I usually never let him cry if I can help it so it was just awful to see him like that. He's asleep in my arms now & I'm in tears as I just don't know what to do, we can't carry on as we are, but I can't see him so upset either. I don't know if I should carry on with it or not, I kinda feel bad giving in now as he will have gotten so worked up over nothing.