Am I being too sensitive?

[bidsy]

Its my OH 40th on sat n me n his mum are arranging a surprise doo at hers, close family and few friends. She asked me to go after work to choose a pic to put on the cake and to show me others she was using for a collage. I was looking through them and there were 2 with him and his ex wife in fancy dress. Why would you show your future daughter in law who is carrying your granchild pics of ex wife???? I just said I dont want any pics of her shown at all so she said she would cut her off but wheres the thought for me and a bit of respect. Maybe just me n hormones but I was annoyed. Its bad enough ive been called tracey for the past 3 years by his nan and the odd time by her when pissed. Sorry for rant but insensed xx

 

[Annie050408]

Oh hon, people can be insensitive sometimes - I'm sure had she thought about it, she'd never have done that. Try to ignore it - at least she immediately said she'd cut the ex our of the pics straight away. x

 

[bidsy]

Ye I suppose but its not just that, his nan has their wedding album still in her house readily available to see. Also sometimes they start to talk about ex's in front of me. They are a lovely family dont get me wrong and they do love me alot but they are the kind of ppl that just dont think. x

 

[isobel84]

i would been upset aswell, i wouldnt wanna see pics of OH having fun with another woman (even his e wife)
But i dont think they do it to hurt you, so maybe you should mention something about it to your OH (after party) and next time you go around there that wedding album might be put away somewhere

 

[rainbow dancer]

Sorry you are upset. it prob doesnt help that your hormones are all over the place!!. My mother in law was the opposite and couldnt wait to cut her ex daughter in law outta her life!! (mind u she was a nutter!!) hope you are feeling a little bit better bout things now xx keep smilin and just think of the little one xx

 

[bidsy]

Sorry you are upset. it prob doesnt help that your hormones are all over the place!!. My mother in law was the opposite and couldnt wait to cut her ex daughter in law outta her life!! (mind u she was a nutter!!) hope you are feeling a little bit better bout things now xx keep smilin and just think of the little one xx

Thanks hun I would of thought she would have wanted the same as she was a nut case as well. Hey Ho nothing as queer as folk eh!

 

[PamMc]

I get it ALL the time with my MIL!! I don't think you are being oversensitive at all as I know exactly how it feels. OH ex is a lunatic and no-one likes her yet MIL talks about her a LOT! Albeit in a negative way but neither me or OH want to hear anything about her. My OH has had to have a word a couple of times but it only seems to work for a few months before she's back on about her again!! I think you are being very good about it to be honest as my MIL only mentioned my OH 1st wedding once and I went bananas!!!

 

[JJ Mum]

Ahh Bidsy, I would have been the same as you if I had seen them, she just grabbed a pile of photos showing her son doing funny things and didn't think or nottice who he was with in them.

I would also have a word in a few weeks or when you next see it together when round there, about the wedding album, as that's just not playing the game X

 

[MrsK]

I would be the same hun, if anyone mentions my hubbies ex-girlfriend I cringe and go into a mood!! And she hasnt been named whislt I,m pregnant so god knows what I do!!lol Totally understand where your coming from x