hi
just wanted a little advice from all you ladies out there who've been through having babies young.
I cant decide whether to try to complete my last year of uni neat year when baby will be a few months old or to take a year out and go back after, only problem is whether i could cope doing my course with baby, and whether i'd go back after a year as my OH wouldnt push me to as he's not very "in to" education and know that to get where i want to it'll take years.
I also wondered how people had managed with having babies in their parents house? I've always been very independent and my parents are bugging me already going on about doing my room for the baby and my dad keeps telling me i'm not able to look after or pay for my own child, he doesnt realise that i've been saving every penny i get for my baby and have £2500 already just to set the baby up with all it's things, i've also been making sure i will get maternity pay from work ( its not much as i only work 16 hours but its soemthing) and been looking in to moving out, my OH wants us to move out together but im not sure its a good idea, i want to be able to bring my baby up my way not how my parents thing i should, and i dont want them looking after it all the time, i want to take responsiblilty for my own actions. I just dont know how easy moving out would be or whats for the best! anyone got any advice?
Clare x
just wanted a little advice from all you ladies out there who've been through having babies young.
I cant decide whether to try to complete my last year of uni neat year when baby will be a few months old or to take a year out and go back after, only problem is whether i could cope doing my course with baby, and whether i'd go back after a year as my OH wouldnt push me to as he's not very "in to" education and know that to get where i want to it'll take years.
I also wondered how people had managed with having babies in their parents house? I've always been very independent and my parents are bugging me already going on about doing my room for the baby and my dad keeps telling me i'm not able to look after or pay for my own child, he doesnt realise that i've been saving every penny i get for my baby and have £2500 already just to set the baby up with all it's things, i've also been making sure i will get maternity pay from work ( its not much as i only work 16 hours but its soemthing) and been looking in to moving out, my OH wants us to move out together but im not sure its a good idea, i want to be able to bring my baby up my way not how my parents thing i should, and i dont want them looking after it all the time, i want to take responsiblilty for my own actions. I just dont know how easy moving out would be or whats for the best! anyone got any advice?
Clare x