5/6 DPO .... Anyone with me?

[angel6901]

Hi angel,

Oh decided to be a knob last night so we didn't dtd and haven't done it in 3 days. I'm so pissed off had a flashing smiley yesterday and going to do today's in a min but I already feel out. I know now why it is taking us so long because we never actually dtd the day I ovulate.

I feel like crying and screaming at him and just giving up!

I'm sure if you dtd yesterday and Friday hun your be covered xx

Aww hun ive only just seen your post
I think we've got the same problem, I literally had to force myself on him yesterday as he didn't want to

Hope you manage to DTD tonight, if it was just a flashing smilie you probably have a day or so before you ovulate

Big hugs to you xxxx

 

[first_time_mum]

Thanks hun, why do men have to be pricks for.

Hugs to you too hunni.

To be honest I wanted sex with him yesterday then he started being nasty so I thought sod you I'm going to sleep, he said my legs are fat (well ones got a cast on duh!!) then he buggered off out without even telling me. Our little girls teething and it's been a nightmare lately and he just thinks it's ok to go out and leave me to calm her knowing that I can walk around with her or run downstairs to get her a bottle xx

 

[WishingHoping]

Hi Em

Oh thsts good thst you start your new job tomorrow, it will help keep your mind of the 2ww
I think your well covered and it sounds like you've ovulated so you its just a waiting game now

Well my OH had been a prick again this morning and said he doesn't want to TTC anymore as I'm becoming obsessed and stressed with it and im wanting him 'on demand!!'

So I dont think we will be DTD anytime soon

Xxxx

Urgh he really is being a douche! But to be fair this is how mine got which is why I'm not telling him anything now and just DTD when the moment strikes and it's been great.

Haven't been SS atall so far but the only thing I noticed was a lot of watery cm when I wiped today although could of been Sperms (sorry)

In other news the detox tea im drinking is helping - sleeping great and regulates everything! Hopefully start to feel more cleansed by the end x

 

[angel6901]

I think if you got a flashing smilie today tour not ovulating yet,

have you done a cheap Opk?
xxxx

 

[first_time_mum]

Yeah and didn't even have a hint of a line on there, also used my clearblue monitor and it was high fertility but not a peak yet. So hoping oh will be nice for a few days then can try and dtd for the next few days to be covered xx

 

[angel6901]

Thanks hun, why do men have to be pricks for.

Hugs to you too hunni.

To be honest I wanted sex with him yesterday then he started being nasty so I thought sod you I'm going to sleep, he said my legs are fat (well ones got a cast on duh!!) then he buggered off out without even telling me. Our little girls teething and it's been a nightmare lately and he just thinks it's ok to go out and leave me to calm her knowing that I can walk around with her or run downstairs to get her a bottle xx

That's not fair, especially since you've got a cast on, he should be at home helping you with your LO
Why are some men picks! !!

We can't get pregnant without them but to be honest I'm going off the idea of DTD with him anyway

Hope he apologises to you and you get some tonight xxxx

 

[ams25]

Hi angel,

Oh decided to be a knob last night so we didn't dtd and haven't done it in 3 days. I'm so pissed off had a flashing smiley yesterday and going to do today's in a min but I already feel out. I know now why it is taking us so long because we never actually dtd the day I ovulate.

I feel like crying and screaming at him and just giving up!

I'm sure if you dtd yesterday and Friday hun your be covered xx

Grr how annoying for you hun! Must be something in the water with OH's being inobs yesterday mine drank one too many glasses of wine last night and fell asleep on sofa grr so no DTD here either! His last night off before he starts night shifts which is why he wanted a drink but he doesn't get it that we needed to DTD for exactly that reason, he can't impregnate me on a night shift can he? Lol.

Men eh! Xxx

 

[angel6901]

If your Opk is negative you've got a few days hun xxx

 

[WishingHoping]

Having so much wet cm I just checked my cervix and its soft and closed high and wet but there is a small lump on it which I have never felt before.... Literally started shitting myself

I have googled it and it can be a mucus lump where the cervix produces so much mucus it swells a little but can also be something like a cyst - I don't know if I should monitor it this week and see if it goes or just go straight to the doctor?

 

[ams25]

First time mum and Angel sorry to hear your OH's being the same, just seen your posts! Why do we bother? ! Xx

 

[first_time_mum]

I can't wait till this cast is off so I can start doing things for myself again. I feel shitty and down as it is without him making me feel worse xx

 

[ams25]

Having so much wet cm I just checked my cervix and its soft and closed high and wet but there is a small lump on it which I have never felt before.... Literally started shitting myself

I have googled it and it can be a mucus lump where the cervix produces so much mucus it swells a little but can also be something like a cyst - I don't know if I should monitor it this week and see if it goes or just go straight to the doctor?

Try not to worry hun I had the same thing in the sumner, about the size of a pea? I was terrified too but it turned out to be nothing. By a coincidence I was due at the hospital for a colposcopy (where they look at your cervix with a microscope) due to some ongoing problems I have and they checked it and it was just normal, they didn't actually explain what it was but said I was all clear. I would get checked out at docs to be sure but don't worry hun xxx

 

[WishingHoping]

Thankyou.

I have never noticed it before it's small like a pea yea it's not painful or producing blood I also can't feel discomfort when we DTD so hopefully nothing to worry about - I read some women get it when they are TTC because the amount of extra mucus we produce also can happen when you've ovulated. Hope its only that but will check every few days and see if it's gone.

Xx

 

[angel6901]

Thankyou.

I have never noticed it before it's small like a pea yea it's not painful or producing blood I also can't feel discomfort when we DTD so hopefully nothing to worry about - I read some women get it when they are TTC because the amount of extra mucus we produce also can happen when you've ovulated. Hope its only that but will check every few days and see if it's gone.

Xx

Hi hun,
I think it has probably just appeared as you didn't feel it last month and im sure it will be nothing to worry about... it may be as you have been DTD quite a lot, mine is a bit bumpy some days but smooth other days, try not to worry but if you need to get checked just make an app with your Gp to put your mind at ease
Big hugs xxx

 

[angel6901]

I can't wait till this cast is off so I can start doing things for myself again. I feel shitty and down as it is without him making me feel worse xx

Men are so insensitive...hope you manage to DTD tonight

When are you getting your cast off? It must make everything much harder not just DTD. ... your doing so well and he should be helping you with your LO not buggering off out
Big hugs xxx

 

[angel6901]

Hi angel,

Oh decided to be a knob last night so we didn't dtd and haven't done it in 3 days. I'm so pissed off had a flashing smiley yesterday and going to do today's in a min but I already feel out. I know now why it is taking us so long because we never actually dtd the day I ovulate.

I feel like crying and screaming at him and just giving up!

I'm sure if you dtd yesterday and Friday hun your be covered xx

Grr how annoying for you hun! Must be something in the water with OH's being inobs yesterday mine drank one too many glasses of wine last night and fell asleep on sofa grr so no DTD here either! His last night off before he starts night shifts which is why he wanted a drink but he doesn't get it that we needed to DTD for exactly that reason, he can't impregnate me on a night shift can he? Lol.

Men eh! Xxx

They are totally selfish sometimes
My OH is normally a sex addict and can't get enough of me but just because I want to...he decided he can't be arsed

Hope you manage to DTD around his night shifts, you will have to jump on him when he gets in from work

Big hugs xxx

 

[first_time_mum]

Well he's woke up in a shitty mood yet again so don't think we will be dtd any time soon. I'm sick to death of his attitude, I do everything (apart from at the moment cos of broken leg) I'm the one that goes to work and then comes home and looks after our little girl all the time, I wake up in the night with her and get up with her in the morning. He lays in bed till whenever he feels like getting up. I always make sure he has got everything that he needs aswell as our little girl. I don't get no thanks for anything.

Just want to break down right now cos I'm so fed up with it, he wakes up and speaks to me like shit then i get the blame for putting him in a bad mood! Sorry for the rant ladies just had to get it out x x

 

[angel6901]

Well he's woke up in a shitty mood yet again so don't think we will be dtd any time soon. I'm sick to death of his attitude, I do everything (apart from at the moment cos of broken leg) I'm the one that goes to work and then comes home and looks after our little girl all the time, I wake up in the night with her and get up with her in the morning. He lays in bed till whenever he feels like getting up. I always make sure he has got everything that he needs aswell as our little girl. I don't get no thanks for anything.

Just want to break down right now cos I'm so fed up with it, he wakes up and speaks to me like shit then i get the blame for putting him in a bad mood! Sorry for the rant ladies just had to get it out x x

Aww hun we are all here for you
sounds like hes he's bring an utter complete knob
It's not fair that you should have to take the blame for his bad mood,
He sounds just like my OH
You have every right to rant and be upset he shouldn't treat you like that

and I know you will probably be the one to make up with him even tho he's in the wrong..? I know as I do it all the time and my OH never apologies

Oh i wish I could give you a big hug xxx

 

[WishingHoping]

I don't know how you girls have the strength for a OH like that!

My ex was a horrible abusive person mentally and physically. He put me down and always made me feel like everything was my fault when it was quite obvious it wasn't. Mental abuse is still bad ladies and I know it's not my place to say as it's not my relationship but I know what I would bloody do if my OH dared speak to me like that. You are his girlfriend, fiancé or wife you're not a piece of shit or a toy that can be picked up and played with when they feel like it. I totally understand it is stressful on the male to perform when we are so desperate to be pregnant and I think it affects them more than we think as they also know without them we wouldn't be able to have a baby but there is no reason for them to be acting like this.

I know you love them but you would never do this to them so why is it okay for them to do it to you?

Wise words -- treat your partner right because if you don't someone else will.

Maybe they need to realise that.

Sorry for saying this because I don't know you personally but my opinion is if you're going to have another baby by this man he himself needs to grow up!

 

[ams25]

Ni problem Wishing Hoping, just keep an eye on it hun but it sounds normal. Are u up to date with smear tests?

So sorry to hear so many OH's being awful! Mine can be lovely or an absolute arse depending whet way the wind blows lik.

In my experience actually having a baby changed our relationship a lot. . My OH was a lot nicer to Me before we had DS, sad but true, I think the strain of having a child (sleepless newborn them stroppy toddler) pushes relationships to the limit! If we were young carefree n didn't already have a house and a child then it would be easier to think I'm not putting up with this, but not so easy these days there's a lot more factors to consider

I hope they all sort their selfish selves out! Xxx

! noticed that a few of us with knob OH's have children already, anyone else find that happened? Lol xx