MrsDavenport
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Hi Ladies,
I don't know if I will get any response to this post, but I don't know where else to turn right now,
My husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for over 3 years now and other than one pregnancy which ended in miscarriage at 8 weeks I have not fallen pregnant at all, I seem to be ovulating (so the pee sticks tell me), I time it, I don't smoke, have stopped drinking, am taking all the right vitimans and eating well - and still nothing. Month in month out I fill myself up with hope only to come crashing back down again and it is getting to me.
I feel so alone with my thoughts and feelings, friends are getting pregnant around me and my sister keeps talking about her and her OH trying for another baby which only makes me feel worse, to the point where I am starting to feel a little resentful which is horrible.
My husband is so matter of fact about it all - he just says we will get looked at and tested, and if we can't have a baby together then we will just accept it....I just don't think I can accept the fact I may never have his child or carry a baby of our own, is this selfish of me?
I have a almost 6 year old from a previous relationship, my husband has raised him ever since he was 8 weeks old, and I know I am lucky to have him and count my blessings for him everyday, yet still I would love to have a baby with the man I married, again am I selfish?
I feel crushed that once again I am not pregnant this month (I could take shares out with First response), and think I may need to start facing facts, that I am probably never getting pregnant naturally.
If anyone is in the same boat I would love to hear from you, maybe it would stop me feeling so alone with it all.
Gemma xx
I don't know if I will get any response to this post, but I don't know where else to turn right now,
My husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for over 3 years now and other than one pregnancy which ended in miscarriage at 8 weeks I have not fallen pregnant at all, I seem to be ovulating (so the pee sticks tell me), I time it, I don't smoke, have stopped drinking, am taking all the right vitimans and eating well - and still nothing. Month in month out I fill myself up with hope only to come crashing back down again and it is getting to me.
I feel so alone with my thoughts and feelings, friends are getting pregnant around me and my sister keeps talking about her and her OH trying for another baby which only makes me feel worse, to the point where I am starting to feel a little resentful which is horrible.
My husband is so matter of fact about it all - he just says we will get looked at and tested, and if we can't have a baby together then we will just accept it....I just don't think I can accept the fact I may never have his child or carry a baby of our own, is this selfish of me?
I have a almost 6 year old from a previous relationship, my husband has raised him ever since he was 8 weeks old, and I know I am lucky to have him and count my blessings for him everyday, yet still I would love to have a baby with the man I married, again am I selfish?
I feel crushed that once again I am not pregnant this month (I could take shares out with First response), and think I may need to start facing facts, that I am probably never getting pregnant naturally.
If anyone is in the same boat I would love to hear from you, maybe it would stop me feeling so alone with it all.
Gemma xx