hi, not sure where to start on this one really, but hopefully someone can help. i have been in a relationship with my partner since august 2014, and it has been a great relationship, both of us being very much into each other. she is 44, i am 41, bot have a chils from previous relationships, both children are 8yrs of age. i ahve shared custody with mine, hers lives with her, whivh i get on with great. the conception date we have been given is 17th july 2015. it wsnt a planned pregnancy, but about 5-6 weeks ago, i noticed the changes, sore boobs, consistently tired ( very out of character for her!) appetite going/changing, kinda raised susspicions. anyway at this stage, i also noticed that she is slowly becoming more distant. on the 16/09/15, she took the test which was posotive, then two days later, decided to call it off on the relationship, as she felt 'numb' towards us. it came as a shock, to go from one extreme to the other. i asked for an exlaination, but got told she couldnt, as there had been no event or instances that would lead to it, which confused her, as well as me!! she has since been to to the dr, and also he clinic, and has decided to book herself in for a termination, as she now thinks this is all a mess! she has asked for space, but feels that she cant see the feelings returning. i have done the obligotary 'google' search, probably to my demise, but nearly every post i see would suggest the pregnancy plays a significant role here! anyone out there with any suggestion/advice, please drop me a line, very much at the end of my tether! i love her to bits, and loosing her is the last thing i want to happen. i cant help but thik that her hormonal changes are the culprit here. seems that after a month of being pregnant, things seem to creep in!