to put it point blank- i dont click with her.....i DREAD her coming to visit...i dread her holding my baby as she holds her in awkward ways .....she already has plans for her to be a ballerina (not on my nelly) , an intellectual etc etc... she never listens to me when i converse...its like what i say is irrelevent....she talks about somethin totally diff after cutting over...hasnt bought hardly anything for her grandchild except towo packs of baby wipes the other day.. hmm ye my mum has been buying those since my baby was born (couldnt tell me partner this tho).........im finding it very hard and worried its gona put a strain on me and my partner..any advice wuld be soooooooooooo appreciated