1 ivf baby and now I'm 9 days late

[Cherub09]

Hi kind of need some advice, help or general chat.
I had ivf in 2008 which my DS was born in 2009, my husband and I separated and both have new partners, my oh has 3 Children from his previous marriage we do not use contraception we use the withdrawal method :/ I'm now 9 days late I do feel like at is on her way but nothing yet and I feel so nauseous in the late afternoons/ evenings should I wait another few days this is all new to me never had a natural pregnancy and thought it was impoasible as I have or had kinked tubes?also have loose stools :/? Really appreciate any help

 

[scn]

The only way to know is to test sweetie, good luck xx

 

[nfeeney90]

i think you should test defenaitly, its never impossible x

 

[nfeeney90]

and the withdrawal method is never 100% as men can leak way before (TMI LOL) ejaculation xx

 

[Emily0505]

As has been said above really. Withdrawl method is not 100% as precum (not sure if that's the technical term! Lol!) can contain sperm. Def do a test sweetie, if you're late and having symptoms you'll know for sure with a test.

XX

 

[Cherub09]

Thanks ladies guess I just think its impossible as I tried 5 years for DS I'm not even sure how my partner would react as he's asked me everyday if af has come and when I say no he gets uptight as he says he's done he doesn't want anymore children but yes I know everyone's thinking we should use something then oh I didn't feel sick or get cramps etc with my son if I were pregnant is that normal??? It would be a miracle x

 

[Cherub09]

Did a test this afternoon now 10 days late and come up negative :/ if af doesn't show by day 14 should I go drs as I have increased risk if I ever fall pregnant of it getting stuck in my tube?? X

 

[scn]

If it's in your tube you'll still get a positive test. But if you're worried about it, then yes see your GP x

 

[Cherub09]

Ok so a negative is a negative then I'll just wait for af

 

[Hope2013]

My friend had ivf 1st baby and 2 years later she conceived naturally with same partner! Very confusing but it definately can happen darling xxxxxx

 

[redbear]

Ive been 13 days late before and not pregnant, but my friend had 5 failed ivf's and adopted a son then fell pregnant accidently just after only dtd once in six months! so can deffo happen xx

 

[Jojo84]

I had this earlier this year. Period was 11 days late - turns out my body decided not to ovulate till much later that month or something. Maybe you OV late

 

[rachelb]

Fx that you get some answers soon. That either AF will arrive or that you will get a bfp. I think that every baby is a miracle so that if it happens it will happen. You are with a new partner now so I wish you all the best with them and that you can conceive naturally.