Oh my, I am so sorry for what you went through, I just cant imagine.....
I am currently 26 weeks and due 14th December.
I think I need to write down the reasons why I want the elective so I dont end up sounding like a too posh to push mum...main reasons are something like this:
If overdue only one attempt at induction allowed due to possible rupture so could end up with section;
If VBAC would want epidural as lost control with Pethidine with DS so likely assisted birth which I do not want;
Possibility of pre-ecplampsia this time again although keep being told unlikely;
Unable/would not want induction drip during labour so if problem then end up with section;
Risk of scar rupture although low percentage;
Not guaranteed overall that VBAC would be successful anyway 70/30 chance;
SPD causing mobility problems so unable to have active birth;
Would be constantly monitored/bed bound during labour which is restrictive.
Good luck with the elective!!!!! x