oh i see what you mean. Not so much about the birth themselves, but the way the 'typical woman in labour' is portrayed. Yeah I also thought the woman on reception was awful. I am from Canada originally, and over there midwives are quite a new thing, when I was born your GP generally delivered your baby, they new you for years, new all of your history and really were 'on call' for when you needed them. You would have one particular midwife/gyny through your whole pregnancy and they would be the person rushing to the hospital to be with you through labour and delivery. It amazes me the lack of support those women were getting from the midwives, they are just to short staffed... so inpersonal. xx