I'm a stay at home mum - thought about going back to work part-time - but at the time we lived in Surrey and I would have been working just to cover the childcare costs with very little left over. We had no family who could help out. That's the main reason why we moved abroad last year as cost of living is much lower here and we can afford for me to stay at home, and it's definitely worth it. In England it's a joke living on one salary once you've paid for mortgage, council tax, bills, petrol etc etc!!! Ironically though, I really miss England (never thought I'd be saying that!). Can't wait til we come back for the summer next week!