Words Hurt :'(

[Amanda W]

So once again we are back to square one i tried talking but hes not having any of it all because i have gone of sex

BUT what he has said to me has hurt me so much iam left in a flood of tears

He said:
'You would not cope with Alisha'

that little girl is my world her happiness becomes mine how can anyone say such a cruel thing..

Im so upset and the tears wont stop coming so iam heading of to make some bottles for baby and im taking my dog up with me


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[Geminiblue]

SELFISH is what he is...all because of sex! all about his wants so hes going to lash out at you. You poor love. Dont you worry Im sure youre doing fine....i was a wreck in the first year of having my little boy, not many new mums act like Mary Bleedin Poppins thats for sure and cope is what we do on a daily basis. He cant even cope without having sex let alone what you do. Selfish insconsiderate childish is what he is. I am so mad I cant tell you. Dont waste any more of your tears on him as he then knows that he has got to you. Go silent. Distance yourself do not have sex with him just because he wants it. Chin up sorry Ive not been much help but this sort of behaviour makes me so mad xxx

 

[Lovisa]

I agree with geminiblue, he is being very selfish and inconsiderate.
I hope you have dried your eyes and kept your head up high.
*hugs* to you hun and hope you feel alot better soon xx

 

[Amanda W]

Thanks everyone i ended up going bed at 3-4am because i was so mad and upset its like i pulled him up and said to me hes saying that iam a unfit mum when he said i would not cope.

But i would cope love being a mummy
seems to me he didnt want a kid i dunno i hope im wrong.

The silent thing i have already started doing my sis is coming round after she pulled up and asked what was wrong with him because he put on facebook that he gives up

i understand sex is part of the relationship but because i have gone of it at the moment he thinks ive gone of him

its like i said if i had i would have told him by now we been together for 4years so surely that has to count for something


Guess not
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