i had my Lewis when i was 20 and i will be 24 when i have this baby, 4 years is a really good gap because lewis doesnt need too much looking after and he had all my attention when he was smaller so his nose wont be put out of joint, i cudnt picture myself having lots of wee tiny nippers running about, not this young lol..
Will you have another?
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We'll definitely have at least one more.
If you want to have another in 5 years and you don't want to move again in that time it would make sense to rent somewhere big enough for more kids. But if you think you'd move in that time it makes sense to get somewhere slightly smaller and cheaper to save the money on rent and council tax.
If you want to have another in 5 years and you don't want to move again in that time it would make sense to rent somewhere big enough for more kids. But if you think you'd move in that time it makes sense to get somewhere slightly smaller and cheaper to save the money on rent and council tax.
For me i feel lucky to be having this one, had only been seeing OH for 6 mths or so before i fell pregnant he def wasn't planned and OH had never really wanted children and def wouldn't want another. I think i prob will want another one all depending on my experience with this one but i'm coming upto 32 so time really isn't on my side xx
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Yes id love to have another child
i would like to have a sibling for Collier as i feel its good for them to grow up with a sibling
my cousin laura is the only one of us cousins who is an only child and i can see she is some times very lonley and now my Anuti Puline had passed away i think it would have helped my Cousin if she had a sibling to comfort her though her loss
all us cousins are there for her but its not the same
i fight like cat and dog with my 2 sisters but i love them to pieces and life would have been boring without them.
so yes id like another child not to close but not to far a distance in age mabye 2 or 3 years try for a second baby.
sarah
i would like to have a sibling for Collier as i feel its good for them to grow up with a sibling
my cousin laura is the only one of us cousins who is an only child and i can see she is some times very lonley and now my Anuti Puline had passed away i think it would have helped my Cousin if she had a sibling to comfort her though her loss
all us cousins are there for her but its not the same
i fight like cat and dog with my 2 sisters but i love them to pieces and life would have been boring without them.
so yes id like another child not to close but not to far a distance in age mabye 2 or 3 years try for a second baby.
sarah
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ATM i dont want another, This has been an emotionally hard pregnancy for me, but who knows how i will feel after the birth.
My OH is talking about the other kids.
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My OH is talking about the other kids.
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I really want another one quite soon after this one!!
Me and bro have a 16 month age gap between us and I loved having him in the year above me at school (and fancying all his mates!
) and we're close now.
Thing is tho, that'd mean getting pregnant when this baby is 6 months or so and I found early pregnancy very tough and I cant imagine running round after a 6 month old and throwing up and wanting to kip all the time!
If I have my 2 close together I wont go back to work, i'd be a stay at home mum, which i think i'd love!
Me and bro have a 16 month age gap between us and I loved having him in the year above me at school (and fancying all his mates!
) and we're close now.Thing is tho, that'd mean getting pregnant when this baby is 6 months or so and I found early pregnancy very tough and I cant imagine running round after a 6 month old and throwing up and wanting to kip all the time!
If I have my 2 close together I wont go back to work, i'd be a stay at home mum, which i think i'd love!
