why cant i get pregnant now?

[can]

Didn't have a problem conceiving yet since my erpc in jan. . . . nothing. Just got my period again so out for another month. Do u think its something to do with the erpc? Its really getting me down and affecting my whole life. Feel like I cant be happy again until im pregnant

 

[H16]

Don't worry too much hun, sometimes your body just needs time to get itself back to "normal" after a miscarriage, it will happen, have faith hun x

 

[scn]

I know how you feel hun, I'm also worried it'll take months after my mc to happen again xx we've got to remain positive though and take comfort in the fact that we know we can get pregnant xx

 

[H16]

I know how you feel hun, I'm also worried it'll take months after my mc to happen again xx we've got to remain positive though and take comfort in the fact that we know we can get pregnant xx

I think that is good advice hun, when I had my miscarriage last year I always tried to focus on the positive of knowing I was able to get pregnant in the first place.

Hope you are both ok, thinking of you xx

 

[Lozzaste]

I'm in the same situation, I had a mc in early November and was trying ever since. Nothing. It only took me two months after my first miscarriage so I have no idea what's going on. Is so frustrating and was driving me mad so I decided to stop trying for a while. I was literally obsessed

Hope you get your BFP soon! Xxx

 

[flisstebbs]

I had this after my 1st mc (i have had 4). I felt so desparate to be pg again, it happened so quickly the first time round, but we had 6 months of nothing happening before calling it a day for a bit. Funnily enough, 3 months being back on the pill, and i caught first cycle after coming off. Ok it didn't go well that time for me, but since then, even with the losses, we have been much more chilled out about the concieving part (probably because thats the bit we enjoy the most, BFPs have become the start of worry and heartache).

There is no evidence for stress being the key thing, but the more stressed i have been and the more desparate to be pg, the more it seemed to elude me. I started doing things again that i was putting off "just in case", and this is what got me to do the magic relaxing thing that everyone tells you to do but not how!!!

 

[jojo3972]

I'm the same I have 6 children and in 2 yrs I've had 3 losses and 2 of which were Erpcs I don't know what is wrong with me I know age is a factor but I've successfully carried 6 children no problems only problem I've had is with my last baby I had an emergency op to remove my placenta as I haemorrhaged and lost a lot of blood and I'm worried that its caused scaring on my uterus but my doctor says unlikely ? My last loss was in October so it's been 6 months now and I average over the last 2 yrs pregnant every 6-8 months so going by those statistics I'm due for y bfp but I realy cannot see it happening any time soon I just try to relax now and not think about it cos they say u can try to hard and that's Shan problems start to happen so I'm going the relaxed approach now x

 

[Bubbles26]

I know your pain love. I had erpc in December and haven't fallen yet. Only took 3 months with the one I lost. My cycles are long and when af does come she's heavy and painful. Just sick of it all. Feel like my life is on hold waiting for a baby.
I'm off to docs next week to see if there's anything I can take/do to shorten my cycles. Will let you know what she says! Xx

 

[can]

thanks everyone for the kind messages, and sorry for all your losses aswell. Im going doc on tue but im sure she will say not to worry and just "relax" however don't think that's possible at the min. Iv convinced myself its to with the erpc and that's making me stressed. fx for all of us in getting our bfp in the end.

 

[Bubbles26]

Let me know what your doc says and ill let you know what mine does!! We will get there one day ladies! It's just frustrating! If you find a way to just "relax and it will happen" let me know!!! Xx

 

[can]

ok ill let u know!!! wish there was a relaxing pill u could take! im sure my doc will say all the usual, but worth a try

 

[FebMum2Be]

Hi hun, with my sisters first child she fell pregnant first month off the pill and had a straightforward pregnancy and birth, this time she had been trying for almost 2 years, had 2 losses and only now has she had a successful pregnancy, she's 19 weeks.. she thought it was never going to happen, she had a d+c with the first and natural with the second.. she originally thought the d+c was the reason she couldn't conceive again but it has happened. Maybe your body is jyst preparing itself for when the time comes. I hope you get your bfp soon and a sticky xxxx

 

[can]

thanks hun I hope so! congratulations to your sister! In know I really need to relax its just so hard. Im trying to be positive and just praying it happens soon. How long u been trying?

 

[FebMum2Be]

I understand it really is hard to relax my sister gave up mentally but kept trying physically I don't think she thought it would happen so keep going hun x

I wasn't trying but fell pregnant and was over the moon but unfortunately we lost the baby at 7 weeks, we have decided we will try soon but I need to be emotionally ready it really took it out of me when I miscarried. What about you? X

 

[can]

I know what u mean hun, at the time I thought it didn't affect me but the send mc in jan really took it out of me, its as though im only focusing on getting pregnant, been ttc since October and don't know how much more emotionally I can take, I know its not that long but with the 2 mc its been really hard. I got a appointment booked for a internal scan on may 8th to check for any fibroids and gona ask them to check to see if cervix looks ok after erpc