why am i so angry??

[YvonneM]

ok so just wehn i get some good news that me and hubby now have a chance of conceiving naturally, my younger sister announces her and her bf that shes been with for like 5mins and he already has a 3year old with his ex, are going to start TTC in a few months time. i just know she will fall pregnant at the drop of a hat and i also jus kno that im prob still miles away from ever getting my BFP. I really dont want to feel like this but i feel so angry, fustrated, jealous and incredibly sad as it should be ME giving my parents their first grandchild and now its likely not to be. I feel like a horrible bitch and rubbish sister for feeling this way my is got angry when i tried to tell her i think its all moving too soon with her bf, they dont even live together yet!! xxx

 

[kathryn87]

I think this is a natural reaction The thought that your sis could get something you so desperately want 1st is most definitely going to upset you.
Just stay positive & think that if your sister does conceive before you it's not necessarily a bad thing
Your turn will come & it will be the best thing ever for you & Hubz xx

Hugz x

 

[welshkellyann]

I understand you totally .. honestly its normal the way you feel and I always feel hate towards my family and friends specially on FB when they easily get pregnant.. Im the oldest aged 29 and im really hoping my sister dont have a baby before me (i know it sounds selfish) but It feels like I should be first and I have been trying since 2002 grr ... But I know as soon as my sister ages 21 says she is ready she will catch fast. Only thing that is helping me is coming on here to talk to women in the same boat or by thinking of the next step in ttc which is the next step of having a baby ... my goal is to have a 2014 baby ... maybe that will help you ... My FX for your 2014 baby xxxx