What's the worst thing in a relationship?

[emma28]

I voted DV&A too. But I wouldn't put up with any of it. I'd rather be alone than with someone and unhappy.

 

[budge]

alll of them.

 

[M&Ms]

I voted for domestic violence and abuse having been in a violent relationship myself. Also the lies totally did my head in which leads to issues of trust too.

 

[NIE]

Sorry too hard to answer.

 

[budge]

Sorry too hard to answer.

yeah i couldn't make a vote either. i couldn't be with anyone who did ny of those things. except the impotence. Thats not self inflicted in most cases.

 

[neeko_1]

they are lots i hate i can't pick one, they seem all abit deep really

 

[Babylicious]

DV & A - been there done that and now divorced

 

[Emma58]

All of them DV & A though i wouldn''t put up with

 

[trixipaws]

think it has to be violence and abuse. dont think i need to explain my answer!

 

[*saulino*]

Hi

I would say domestic violence as well alongw ith many of the others ( all of them )

 

[Redshoes]

I voted lies.
Personally lies have caused the worst problems for me in relationships, and I've experienced most options on the list.

 

[Tangerinedream]

Most of those come hand-in-hand to be honest, especially if DV&A is involved. I voted DV&A but there is alot I wouldnt put up with there

 

[mrs_metal]

violence and abuse is the worst but most of the others I'd vote for as well, anything that destroys trust destroys the relationship

 

[floppit]

DV - that's the one where folk can wind up dead. The rest are problems but at least you can have the choice to walk away and finish things. I know lots of people do walk away from abuse but some never make it so that's why it has to be my number one.

Hell though - this list makes me realise how damn lucky I am!

 

[mrs_tommo22]

I havent voted because i think all of them are the best way to kill a relationship, if they were in my relationship i wouldnt have one!

 

[jendav81]

I voted for Domestic Violence and abuse. It is totally unacceptable and should not be tolerated by anyone. Nobody deserves to be abused, whether it is physical or mental abuse.

 

[Slinky Sarah]

like alot of people all of them, bar impotence...unless its drugs related...
i voted for infedelity....happened 3 times now....with all my ex's.
Got nothing to worry about in this relationship thoughg