Whats the point

[Leanne and Andy]

I mean really what if the point trying!!!!! Im spotty, fat, miserable! My OH dosnt give a flying f**k! I have off work til Monday and he could have any days he wants off as hes self employed...i just got a new lovley sofa ect trying to make house nice for bubs arrival! Its a lovley warm day and all he wants to do is either sit in or goto work dispite having a guy to run the shop! Hes had a go at me over sexytime - hes wanting most days as per and i just DONT!! tho i dont often say no..we did it last nite and with my Uterus rising now i found him on top and me on belly a bit uncomfatable so today i got it in the neck for that him saying i was pulling faces and looking misrerable during sex and "thats why i turned ur face away so i didnt have to look at it" Thanks at least a im getting fat for a reason old pal and not just cos im a greedy f**k grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr. Then he blatently looks at pretty girls knowing i feel n look like a ton of fried crap atm! Click on net history found "Jenna Jameson" "Female models" "sexy women" ect ect well they can have him and he can have them!!! Good riddens! Its my B day tomozz and im almost certain hes got me some expensive digital camera thanks but if i wanted one i wudda got one before now!!!! So much for the weekend away he suggested weeks back!!!! I feel so unloved and crap right now!!!! PILLACK!!!!

 

[karenandbump]

Aw hon, u poor thing feeling like this. I;m sure he isn't meaning to make u feel bad - u tried atlking to him about how ur feeling? xxx

 

[titch]

its really hard with the sex thing, I totally did not want it until about 19/20 weeks and now ive got a sex drive like Im 17 again, but I think OH is a bit put off by the bump and knowing his son is in there...so its like we've swapped roles!!

My OH looks at girls online all the time, Ive never asked him not to, cos he doesnt look at them in the same way as he looks at me, I wouldnt WANT him to look at me in that way, like im some kind of object. Plus if hes got the laptop in the bedroom it saves me a job

Sorry you are feeling so crap, it really does get better soon, you will start to feel much more settled in your body,and Im sure you are just beautiful the way you are, you just dont feel it thanks to those bloomin hormones

Could you talk to him and explain that your hormones are making you feel really miserable, and you could do with a nice day out in the sunshine tomorrow to cheer you up? He's probably completely oblivious to how your feeling, I was totally shocked to find that my OH "had no idea" I felt so crap, despite seeing me throw up everyday and be more tired than ever, and cry in front of the fridge cos I dont know what i can eat. Aparently he needed me to say "I feel so crap and fed up, Im hungry and Im sick and Im tired and I just cant take it anymore" MEN!

Good luck hun, we're here to listen whenever you need to rant!

 

[rakrak]

awe hun, sorry to hear this. men are just plonkers nd i don't think they realise how they are being at times... just give him a crack round the head!
we're here for you to talk hun xx

 

[titch]

... just give him a crack round the head!

Ive felt liek doing that a lot!!!

 

[MrsR]

I'm so sorry you're feeling like this! x You could suggest different positions for when you're feeling up to sex? x Id definatly try talking to him honey, and, as my OH points out constantly when I moan, you're not fat-you're pregnant! I know it's hard to feel attractive/sexy etc and until I got up the courage to finally face the mirror and actually look at the changes in my body I hated it! Now I'm loving my bump and boobs! x He could be more understanding and actually bother to listen to you and be interested in why you looked so miserable in bed rather than just turned your face away (it would of been swiftly over if my OH did this to me!) x x x big hugs and try to enjoy your birthday darling x x

 

[scaredmum2be]

I know how you mean with the DTD thing since finding out im pregnant at 2-3 weeks ive not wanted sex well i just didnt want it but then when i started showing i look fat,boring n felt very unnatractive although im not sure if my other half looks at other women to be honest it wud make me feel worse if he done it an i knew about it.

Im 24 weeks and im still in no mood to DTD and to make him happy but i cant be bothered as i dont feel happy i know im selfish haha but im sure he can wait, although i give him it every now an again i dont know why but not all the time i just dont appear in the mood.

Ive heard everyone elses sex life has gone up but mines not got anywhere let alone feeling great bout doing it lol.

Im now hoping my sex drive comes back after ive had baby not straight away obviously but i need it to return otherwise arguements can start between me an other half so i need mine back.

I cant believe ur other half sed that to you that aint fair with the facial expression i would of smacked him round the face as hard as i cud if my other half sed that to me.
Tell him how hurtful hes made you feel after telling you that i know id be hurt to xx

 

[klam]

well thats just out of order! if u looked uncomfy durin sex why didnt he ask if u were ok or get off u??? how selfish of him! and to look up models! no no no. send him to me for a week my partner doesnt even look at another woman when im around or he gets "the look" never mind look on the net at them.

he has his own hands! and if he paid u a little attention and maybe gave u some cuddles told u how pretty u are u may get in the mood. keep ur chin up wont be long until he realises how good he has it xxx

 

[Leanne and Andy]

Awww thank you ladies....Such understanding souls (Knew i shudda ya know batted for the otherside) lmao Im feeling much better today and realised that im a moaning, ungratful little shit at times! lol ...Oh dear these hormones have so much to answer for! But today im feeling good.. my camcorder he got me is lovley and were gunna go out for lunch with the dog and take piccys yayyy!! Happy girl again! By 2pm tho i maybe a nasty little piece of work again tho hahaha! Thanks again ladies xxxxx

 

[scaredmum2be]

if its ur birthday happy birthday .
my hormoanes are litterally everywhere mines getting out of control hahax

 

[DubstepDaniix]

Awww, thats awful to hear . Well i think the other ladies have pretty much said what i wanted to say, try talking to him about how your feeling . And happy late birthday xx

 

[Piglet10]

errr smack him... dont give him any sex for a while and wipe everything off his comp and say it had a virus so u cleaned it.... and when hes calmed down call him a bollocks. then make him listen to how ur feeling for ages... dont forget to throw in some waterworks xxx and order a chinese on him xx