What's going on?

[tinselcat]

I miscarried 4 weeks ago so if my period was being regular (as it always has been in the past, including the time I lost my first baby), then today should be the day it arrives. I do have some stabby pains in abdomen this evening so thought it was all on course.

During the last two weeks I never really got a positive OPK reading (although may have missed testing at the right moment) and CM had dropped to nothing so gave up on this cycle.

However when I got home, I had more CM than expected in underwear so POASed with an OPK and the result is attached.

Any thoughts what's going on? Should I start BDing?

 

[jojo3972]

i dont know tinsel cos i have read a lot about cycles getting bk to normal on google and it ranges from right away to 10 weeks!! my opks are still very very dark atm not got no hpts to test but will get some at weekend so i can track hcg levels,im thinking of asking my doc to do some hcg blood tests every week or summet cos i read it has to be under 5 to ovulate again,im so impatient i want my cycles b k to normal like yesterday im so frustrated its unreal,i know how u feel and i realy hope ur cycle is bk on track maybe do a prego tests? xx

 

[tinselcat]

Hey jojo, I remember how impatient I was waiting for the OPKs to go negative, it's like the only time you ever want to see the line disappear so you know you can start trying asap. I'm sure yours'll get there soonish, think it took me about 12 or 13 days. Good luck on that front anyway xx

I forgot to mention, my temps have been in the 'post-ovulation' range in the last couple of weeks, (although maybe sleep has been disturbed. My OH woke me up with a loud poo at 6am this morning!! I was not impressed!! )

I only have 1 preg test that I can find (there should be 5 cheapies somewhere in my flat but would probably take days to unearth them!!) so I guess I'll have to wait til tomorrow. Just don't kind of even want to believe in that kind of hope at the moment, to save heartbreak when AF arrives.

xx

 

[jojo3972]

aww i know how u feel each month wen that horrible af turns up is heartbreaking today is only 8 days after erpc so only early yet will test at weekend with hpt and them midweek and test in between with opks god what a mare it all is aint it ppfftttt fingers crossed u get ur bfp tho exciting but scary at same time xxx

 

[tinselcat]

Aw i was getting myself all hopeful but an opk with fmu today practically had no second line so i didn't bother with my one & only preg test

Guess body's still confused

Gutted

 

[jojo3972]

Don't give up hope tinsel I remember doing a opk after I got my bfp and it was neg no line nothing but at around 6 weeks ish it was a very dark possitive,could u ask doc to give u a hcg count over a week or summet to see where ur at ? Am gonna speak to doc today about that least if I have a reading or 2 I know where I'm at n if she tells me not ttc untill I get my first af I'll tell her to stfu lmao gd luck hope ur body is just beeing a bugger and u do get ur bfp xx