what to do?

[roxane 1985]

its a long one ok lol

ive had my ormal scans at 6wks, 8wks and 12 wks so far

we got a 4d package for 250 which gives you three scans, we did one of those at 10 wks

my 20 wk scan is in 5 wks but we are desperate to find out sex

we didnt want to waste part of the package on a gender scan as we planned to have them at 24 and 28 wks

my partner has offered to pay for a seperate gender scan for in 2 wks which is another 55 quid.

what should we do?
1)just wait till our 20 wk scan and save the other 2 private ones
2)use up a private scan early on
3)pay for an extra scan costing us in total 305 quid for all the private scans?

 

[Hemera]

to be honest i would just wait - its very likely they won't be able to see the sex if you go early and wouldn't want it to be a waste on money or a session. you'll find out in 5 weeks time anyway just get really really excited about that day! lol.
Thats just my opinion anyways

 

[roxane 1985]

well i went on youtube and had a look at some videos of 18 wks babies and they are freaky looking, def waiting. when i had them done before it was later on