What is wrong with me?!?

[Kaylee2802]

The oh works away, he came home this afternoon and got a shower Then went out ( we had a bit of a falling out while he was away) .. I haven't had the chance to tell him we are having a baby yet ( didn't want to do it over the phone) and he wasn't interested that I told him I wanted to talk and now I have say and cried since 7pm.. I can't pull myself together , please tell me this is the hormones and I'm not insane x

 

[natashateale]

Hey hun didnt want to read and run.
I am not saying its completely hormones but they will have alot to do with it. My OH went away for 4days about 2weeks ago and all I did was cry ( we also had a tiff before he went)
Even wen he came back I wud cry when he went back to work cuz we didnt talk about what hd happen bedore he went.
U need to tell him ur having a baby, thats probs effecting you more than anything atm the fact that hes doesnt know and I am guessing u wont of told any body else before him so you will be feeling alone with right now.
to you hun I do feel for u I have been there.
I am sure once u sit him down and make sure what ever u argued about before he went away is cleared up and then tell him he will be over the moon and a great weight will be lifted off your shoulders
Best of luck hun xxx

 

[Kaylee2802]

Thankyou,yore so kind.. i cried Reading that lol I think it's one of them nights x

 

[natashateale]

I am sure u will have many more of those nights. I have them very often and just feel so aloneand although I dont feel better straight away after a good cry I do feel better the next day.
And if u ever feel alone u do have a little person to talk too inside of u
I talk to my bub when I feel low. Doctors say that baby can feel how u feel so o figure there is nobody better to talk too
It may seem strange but I find it helps xx

 

[Kaylee2802]

I love the idea, I'm just struggling to get attached ATM because I don't want to get my hopes up, I've had 2 mcs before this pregnancy an it probably is selfish and wrong of me but I just need abit of reassurance before I get too attatced as I think it will break me if something goes wrong this time x

 

[inky]

It is probably is hormones hon, but dealing with the worry of a new pregnancy after 2 mcs on your own must be hard too, tell him as soon as you can, and Im sure things will get easier with some support xx