So hubby is in the army and has just been accepted for a course in the new year and if he passes it (which I am fairly certain he will) we will have to move. We won't know about whether or not we are moving until we know if he has passed on 13th Feb when I will be 2 days shy of 37 weeks pregnant.
When we know all this we have to arrange schools for our 3 monkeys (who will be aged 9,6 and 4 at that time in years 4, 1 and reception) and all the other moving house malarky which I have had to do before with only a couple of weeks notice so know it can be done.
We may have no choice in when we move but if it was you and you had a choice would you wait and move after baby is born with the added pressure of moving with a baby or would you get it over and done with before baby turns up and have the new house set up ready for the new baby?
I think it would be easier to move before and my husband understands where I am coming from but the welfare officer disagrees and thinks we should wait till after baby is born. We would still be under the same hospital as we would be going about 40 minutes and the hospital is equidistance from here and new area so that isn't a factor. The only other factor is what if baby is early or I am induced early cos of the high BP?
When we know all this we have to arrange schools for our 3 monkeys (who will be aged 9,6 and 4 at that time in years 4, 1 and reception) and all the other moving house malarky which I have had to do before with only a couple of weeks notice so know it can be done.
We may have no choice in when we move but if it was you and you had a choice would you wait and move after baby is born with the added pressure of moving with a baby or would you get it over and done with before baby turns up and have the new house set up ready for the new baby?
I think it would be easier to move before and my husband understands where I am coming from but the welfare officer disagrees and thinks we should wait till after baby is born. We would still be under the same hospital as we would be going about 40 minutes and the hospital is equidistance from here and new area so that isn't a factor. The only other factor is what if baby is early or I am induced early cos of the high BP?