We've made a decision...

[jarjar7]

I've been doing some thinking over the last few days, what with the huge row with OH last week, spoke to him about it tonight and he agreed...basically we are going to ease off on the TTC...not ease off as in stop altogether but I'm getting so stressed about it not happening and panicking about getting the days right etc so I am going to stop doing OPK's and we have agreed for the next couple of cycles we will just relax and just have sex more...if I take the pressure off him he will want sex more and if I get more sex then hopefully some of the stress will be taken off me cos I'll know we're having more sex...if that makes sense???
Who knows what will happen and I do think I will end up still doing the sneaky OPK every so often but I've heard so many women say that the month they stopped stressfully trying was the month they fell PG so I guess it cant hurt right??? Lol...xxx

 

[FebMum2Be]

I hope it works for you hun xx

 

[frankie707]

Fingers crossed for you, sounds like a good decision - I concieved on holiday - wasnt even thinking about TTC just enjoying the holiday spirit!!! Hope it works for you too

 

[clairebear22]

Good for you Jar Jar! We now take a relaxed view on TTC after a few months of obsession! lol

Hope it works for you hun!

xxx

 

[Vickyxx]

They say things always happen when you are least expecting them so I think a break could be good, in the back of your mind you know roughly when you will be fertile each month so at that time each month just have fun sex that way it doesnt feel so robotic and your OH doesnt feel like a sperm donor ..... good luck hun x x x

 

[vixforever]

The month I stopped, I got my BFP!

 

[jarjar7]

Thanks Ladies...its weird but since agreeing to it last night I feel like a weight has been lifted and I'm actually looking forward to going to bed tonight and trying it on with him!!!
Could still do with some baby dust though if any of you lovely ladies feel like passing some along!!!
xxxx

 

[clem]

Good luck with this. I try to be like this all the time (though fail completely), but you are absolutely right - it is a much healthier way to approach it.

 

[vixforever]

 

[xXxBonnyxXx]

Good luck hun, I hope this works better for you both,
x x x

 

[x-misspinkuk-x]

The month I stopped, I got my BFP!

ditto
i didnt even think i was ovulating. good luck hun xxx

 

[jarjar7]

Thanks ladies...you never know, if I still get a BFN this month then I'll probably be back here more stressed than ever next cycle but I just think everything is worth a go!
xxx

 

[Vickyxx]

 

[frankie707]

 

[Mrs_B]

Good luck hun. I didnt do an opk the cycle I got my bfp. I just pounced on hubby at every opportunity, when I thought I was ov (going by pains) I didnt tell him.

Glad you feel better already. Have fun!

 

[Lilelephant]

Good luck hun hope it happens for u

 

[jarjar7]

Thanks Ladies...
That's what I'm hoping MrsB, I will always obviously know roughly the time I'm due to OV but I'm sure dates etc wont stick in his mind so by me turning it into us just having sex for fun again hopefully I'll be less stressed and it will happen for us...xxx