I'm so sorry hun, It happened to me a few years ago , baby died at 9 plus weeks, I was scanned at 11 plus 5 and it didn't look right, ill never forget that screen image. I opted for surgical, andxwas told about the shared crem thing, i didn't want to go but I like the idea that I knew where it had gone incase I did want to go at some point, and that was done properly.
I ended up starting mc myself a few days later and it just wouldn't stop, so if it's too fast, too much blood do seek help hub, I ended up in a diff hosp ( that other one wouldn't take me before 7 am!, it was only 4 am!) and 2 blood transfusions and d&c at 7 am. Sadly as a diff hosp , after knowing what was happening to baby, they told me after that it was just randomly disposed off in the clinical rubbish.
Get some pads in, some paracetamol for painful cramps as uterus contracts to expel things, and some choc x take time off work, your stuck in limbo which will feel so wrong. Make sure you eat properly and drink lots, don't neglect yourself as you will get througth this. I felt better once it was over as I could process it better and move on.
Sending you a big hug, do keep talking about it on here, it really helped me deal with it x
my thoughts are with you
Ive been through it twice now so I know all too well the utter shock you must be feeling. To be thinking all is ok then BAM, seconds later everything has changed. Its such a shock.
