WILMAFLINSTONE
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is a bit of a bone of contention!
Dh and Dd will be with my for the delivery and tbh they are the only ones I want there for at least the first 24/48hours after lo arrives!
We kinda decided depending on how long I was in hopsital we would tell family and friends we werent having visitors at the hospital but when we come home, and have had a couple of days to settle in etc we would have a family and friends day where we literally have an open house for one day as I really dont want a trail of visitors coming and going when they feel like it!!
We know his side are going to want to be 'there' and be in the limelight so to speak even though Ive only seem them 3 times throughout this pregnancy.....and also my half siblings who I wouldnt want withing 10 miles of the hospital so arnt letting them come either....we just want some time on our own....
Were going to have to tell them either before and it will prob cause a rift, or DH said he will juet tell everyone Im too tired and we will let everyone know when they can visit!
I just remember when DD was born everyone just turned up when they felt like it and some mornings I wasnt even out of my pjs when folk were knocking to come see her and I cant stand the thought of all that again! Grrrrrrrrr
So are we being selfish by having no visitiors for at least the first day or two in hosp and deciding on an open house for visitors.....???
What are your plans??xxx
Dh and Dd will be with my for the delivery and tbh they are the only ones I want there for at least the first 24/48hours after lo arrives!
We kinda decided depending on how long I was in hopsital we would tell family and friends we werent having visitors at the hospital but when we come home, and have had a couple of days to settle in etc we would have a family and friends day where we literally have an open house for one day as I really dont want a trail of visitors coming and going when they feel like it!!
We know his side are going to want to be 'there' and be in the limelight so to speak even though Ive only seem them 3 times throughout this pregnancy.....and also my half siblings who I wouldnt want withing 10 miles of the hospital so arnt letting them come either....we just want some time on our own....
Were going to have to tell them either before and it will prob cause a rift, or DH said he will juet tell everyone Im too tired and we will let everyone know when they can visit!
I just remember when DD was born everyone just turned up when they felt like it and some mornings I wasnt even out of my pjs when folk were knocking to come see her and I cant stand the thought of all that again! Grrrrrrrrr
So are we being selfish by having no visitiors for at least the first day or two in hosp and deciding on an open house for visitors.....???
What are your plans??xxx