Vent / possible TMI

[amoore495]

New to the forum but happy to be here! I am 24, 4 months pregnant with my first baby and having all kinds of issues Was diagnosed a few weeks ago with placenta privea and told it would likely correct itself by birth. I am not on bed rest or anything. Phew! However, I WAS told no sex or orgasms. I will sacrifice and do anything and everything to protect my baby. Let that be said. But OH.EM.GEE. It's hard!!! I have a very high sex drive and my husband and I were having regular sex and found it to actually be more pleasurable since I got pregnant. So to have to stop cold turkey has been rough on us I woke up the other night at 2:30 a.m. raging horny and just was like *rawr!!!* So frustrated. Can anyone offer advice on coping or adjusting??? TIA!

 

[Unicorn]

I'm sorry, that does sound really rough! We're also having a bit of a difficult time as I find sex whilst I'm pregnant much more pleasurable so would be very happy to be having lots of it and feel horny often but have a cervical stitch, which is like having twine in your vagina so obviously hubby won't have sex with me and I've had a few episodes of bleeding and contractions etc so have to take it easy. But I don't have to avoid orgasms all together, so I really feel for you! I understand it being hard on your relationship as well because being this horny there is no way I can pleasure hubby without getting myself worked up so when I can't we both miss out!
I'm afraid I don't think there is really anything I can offer in the way of advice or anything, I just didn't want you to feel on your own!
Are you being monitored regularly? If so hopefully it won't take long for your placenta to move xx

 

[amoore495]

I'm sorry, that does sound really rough! We're also having a bit of a difficult time as I find sex whilst I'm pregnant much more pleasurable so would be very happy to be having lots of it and feel horny often but have a cervical stitch, which is like having twine in your vagina so obviously hubby won't have sex with me and I've had a few episodes of bleeding and contractions etc so have to take it easy. But I don't have to avoid orgasms all together, so I really feel for you! I understand it being hard on your relationship as well because being this horny there is no way I can pleasure hubby without getting myself worked up so when I can't we both miss out!
I'm afraid I don't think there is really anything I can offer in the way of advice or anything, I just didn't want you to feel on your own!
Are you being monitored regularly? If so hopefully it won't take long for your placenta to move xx

Thank you for the support