update on me :-)

fran_23

Well-Known Member
Joined
May 12, 2006
Messages
5,079
Reaction score
0
Well as you know i broke up with Haydens dad at the end of june and although initially it was to have some space and then talk about stuff etc he then said he was not willing to try again..but i've always felt in some kind of limbo because it didn't feel over to me. Anyway just thought i'd write down whats going on for me more than anything.
I was very upset and threw myself into doing lots of stuff with Hayden and my friends, the last month and a bit i have never phoned or texted Stewart unless to reply to him re seeing Hayden etc..i found it hard to get on with him as a mate at first as it was hurtful but swallowed my feelings for little mans sake and was very nice and civil- last few weeks we have been out a couple of times..we didn't drag up all the past etc we just had a laugh and i think we sort of rediscovered a spark that had been lost in our daily routine. We have been really close and we had a good talk earlier on about a few things.i'm not saying we are getting back together but we both feel there is something still there between us. I know that doesn't mean we should be together as sometimes you can still have feelings for someone and it still wouldn't work out...I think we are going to carry on living apart and take things really slowly and see how it goes, neither of us wants to just jump back in to how we were as nothing would change and we would be back to square one..not sure what will happen in the future we just know we really miss each other and we are both still in love with each other so we will see how it goes i guess. At least now he has said he is still in love with me and wants to work things out but in a practical way not just jump straight back in and fingers crossed its ok or anything. I feel the same way i wouldn't want him to just move back in now..too much has happened and i am not just going to take him back. anyway thanks for reading/listening just needed to write it down and make sense of my feelings.
 
Awwww hun... I hope you get happieness at the end of it, whatever is decided :hug:
 
:hug: You do what is best for you hunny i think taking it slow is a wise idea
I wish you all the happiness in the world and that you do make it together
Im sure he has relised what he was about to lose and will do all he can to pamper you and show you he loves you
You deserve no less :hug: :hug: :hug:
 
:hug: :hug: :hug: thank you. Yeah this time i'm going to take it so slowly if anything does happen i want to be happy,
being with him makes me happy but i want to make sure it will last for Haydens sake aswell. coming and going wouldn't be good for him as he is getting older and will understand much more. I think he is realising he wasn't happy without me, but anyway we'll see how it goes...easy does it eh :)
 
You both sound like you're going into this with a great mindset! :cheer: That's what'll make the best relationship, neither of you are under any illusions & I think that's brill! Deffo helps with the foundations of starting again (if that's where this ends up).

You both sound so similar (not heard loads about him), but the fact you're both on the same page and have given it a lot of thought & time before coming to the decision to slowly try again is great!! :dance:

I REALLY hope it works out for you, I'm sure it will, it sounds like a perfect re-start :D Sometimes couples just need a little break to realise what they love in a person...

Go have fun :wink: :cheer: xx
 
:hug: :hug: :hug: I really hope it works out for you.

You are definately going the right way about it. :D I hope in time it all gets better and you get your fresh start xxxx
 
Ahhh, how exciting hun!! Im very pleased for you, you are going about this the right way too!! :)

Last thing you want to do is jump back into it, and have it fall flat on its face.

Oh, im so happy - now me and MIL will have an excuse to go buys hats ;) :rotfl:
 
HertsMummy said:
Ahhh, how exciting hun!! Im very pleased for you, you are going about this the right way too!! :)

Last thing you want to do is jump back into it, and have it fall flat on its face.

Oh, im so happy - now me and MIL will have an excuse to go buys hats ;) :rotfl:

PMSL :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: if you go shopping with her for a hat i dread to think what you'd end up with :shock:

MIL is being a right twonk again btw..she was meant to be having Hayden while i go reading festival tomorrow BUT she arranged behind my back that HER mum does it but shes still gonna go round there to spend the day with him....????? why couldnt she just have him then?? i hate her!!!!!

but anyway thank for your replies girls i really hope it works out too...which is why i'm happy to take my sweet time over it!! i have a smile on my face now though :D :D even MIL can't get to me!! hehe
 
:hug: :hug:
I'm glad to hear things are going well, sounds like you're dealing with it in the best way possible. At least this way things will turn out for the best for you all. YAY for you :) oooh and enjoy the festival :)
 
you are being so strong, look after yourself whateber way it goes.

and enjoy yourself at reading, i'm not jealous, nope ot even a teeny weeny bit :shakehead: :fib:
 
beanie said:
you are being so strong, look after yourself whateber way it goes.

and enjoy yourself at reading, i'm not jealous, nope ot even a teeny weeny bit :shakehead: :fib:


Aw sorry i will have have a great time and will have a beer for you!!!
:hug: :hug:
 

Users who are viewing this thread

Members online

No members online now.

Forum statistics

Threads
473,582
Messages
4,654,678
Members
110,059
Latest member
Sianab
Back
Top