Hi pregnancy forum,
I miscarried an unplanned pregnancy a few months ago. The one person I really wanted some support from was my mother but I cant believe the way she was.
When I finally told her it was because I was possibly having an ectopic due to my hormone levels going up so I possibly had to have surgery. My mother was unemotional over the phone. I was crying and she kept on asking why I was crying. On the way to the hospital she did not speak to me, and then she said I deserved all this because I should have been more careful. Thing is though, Im not a 14 year old, im 30 and have a good job stable job and all I really wanted was a mothers support.
Only a few days later did she relent and phone me to find out how I was and wanted me to come and stay.
I feel like the damage has been done with her, deep down I dont actually like her very much any more.
Has anyone else had a similar experience with family being absolutely awful after a miscarriage??
I miscarried an unplanned pregnancy a few months ago. The one person I really wanted some support from was my mother but I cant believe the way she was.
When I finally told her it was because I was possibly having an ectopic due to my hormone levels going up so I possibly had to have surgery. My mother was unemotional over the phone. I was crying and she kept on asking why I was crying. On the way to the hospital she did not speak to me, and then she said I deserved all this because I should have been more careful. Thing is though, Im not a 14 year old, im 30 and have a good job stable job and all I really wanted was a mothers support.
Only a few days later did she relent and phone me to find out how I was and wanted me to come and stay.
I feel like the damage has been done with her, deep down I dont actually like her very much any more.
Has anyone else had a similar experience with family being absolutely awful after a miscarriage??