kirstymichelle
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Should i be in there now??
I like it in here
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I like it in here
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i think its just coz some people find it hard when they have no kids and are trying for #1, so noone gets offended
Its silly for women to be fighting/arguing over who should be in what section!
As women trying to conceive we are all at some point gonna go through same/similar stages, hormones are still gonna get to us and the emotions you feel are still just as raw and really as the next womans whether or not they have another child.
I'm not sure what has happen or what has been said, so i'll stay brief. But i have a child already and have been ttc 2 years now, and i still cry into a pillow and i still feel my heart actually aching for something i cant have (yet). It doesnt mean im not greatful or greedy...just means i'm human. Shouldnt we all support each other regardless. Just my opinion
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ah well i missed the thread and glad i did too, doesnt sound nice
It is a good idea to have the other section, if i ever need to have a moan about jake and the impact another child has on trying to conceive (im not gonna lie he's almost caught us in the act a few times ) I'll make sure to pop over to the other section!
tbh im 50/50 on this new thread, and only because
I see were lynette is coming from.. If you havent yet had a child and cant concieve and are part of the LTTTC section it can be a bit demoralising whilst you are trying everything you possibly can to concieve and other people are on to their second or whatever, but at the same time the TTC thread is just the same, if you havent yet moved to the LTTTC and are still in TTC then that can be a bit demoralising seeing bfps left right and centre but at the end of the day this whole forum is about trying to get pregnant/pregnancy and chances are a lot of people will get pregnant, sadly it is harder for some people.
I think having a new thread is just maybe helping people feel that they "belong" specificly to one group and at the same time not upsetting anyone that arent able to concieve their first child.
I hope everyone isnt too offended by the new thread as really it is a forum you can post where you like. It would be much worse if they actually locked out the threads according to which category you fall under - its getting worse these days, everyone has a label for everything lol!