smurf said:I think its a lovely idea my sister had named her baby with 1 middle name but 3 weeks after she was born our mum died so when my niece was Christened they added my mums name as a second middle name.
Please God your OH's nan will live to see your baby it might just be the thing to keep her going. My nieces arrival certainly had that effect on my mum - she was determined to see her and she did (she died 4 days after seeing her, my sister also live here in the UK my mum was at home in Ireland)