TTC with irregular cycles

[Misslarue]

Well I guess I'm back in here, very sad about my miscarriage but happy to be back with you lovely ladies! Although there's not many of us left now!

Massive congratulations again to Rusks and Ejjie

Tina & Gabs sorry she got you hun, but heres to a new cycle
Curly wurly, welcome to the club hun and good luck ttc
A&J how did it go today?

Not sure what I'm doing tbh. My Dr told me to wait a cycle, but I really don't want to. I feel ready now and also if I have a long cycle.....I don't want to wait that long. I'm too impatient!
I thought I was OV last week but the OPK results probably weren't strong enough.

 

[A&J]

Well I guess I'm back in here, very sad about my miscarriage but happy to be back with you lovely ladies! Although there's not many of us left now!

Massive congratulations again to Rusks and Ejjie

Tina & Gabs sorry she got you hun, but heres to a new cycle
Curly wurly, welcome to the club hun and good luck ttc
A&J how did it go today?

Not sure what I'm doing tbh. My Dr told me to wait a cycle, but I really don't want to. I feel ready now and also if I have a long cycle.....I don't want to wait that long. I'm too impatient!
I thought I was OV last week but the OPK results probably weren't strong enough.

Welcome back! I am so sorry to read about your loss

When I had my m/c I was told to ttc when I felt ready so if you feel ready then I would just go for it I am sending you babydust for a short cycle and a quick BFP

Thank you for asking how it went The consultant that I saw was all doom and gloom no positive attitude what soever!! I came back with no answers! she mentioned putting me on to (I can not remember now ) but when I told her that my last cycle was 23 days she said to wait another 3 months to see how my cycles go and when my fertility monitor peaks for the 2nd day I have to get bloods tests to see if I am actually ovulating She was even talking about IVF which shocked me a bit so early on to the investigation Both me and DH came out of the hospital feeling really negative about it all but now we are more determined to get a BFP just so we don't have to see her again

I am now on cd18 and my monitor has been high for 5 days so hopefully it will peak tomorrow we have done lots of babydancing....just hope it is enough

How are the rest of you lovely ladies? hope you are all well?

Sending everyone babydust

 

[iloveanimals]

wat wud everyone consider to be an irregular cycle pattern ?

Ive only been timing my periods 4 mnths ago since TTC and so far they have been :

33, 33, 31 and am now on day 33 today i think .... i think because i dont no if i count from day 31 to today as my expected period or add on 2 days that i was behind on for the 31 day - HELP

Would you consider this cycle to be irregular or not ? Or is it hard to tell by just 4 dates ?

Any info would be appreciated x

 

[ejjie]

Hi Iloveanimals, you count from the first day of your period being the first day of your cycle. I would say you are regular at around 33 days and would test at 35 days if you didn't get your period already. I would just say the 31 day cycle was a blip and they happen every now and again to trick us...

 

[iloveanimals]

aww thanks for that - so do i jus count 33 days from ma 31 day cycle thn or 35 days to let it catch up ?

 

[Misslarue]

A&J sorry you didn't have a positive appointment with the consultant hun
I really hope you peak today I love your plan of getting a bfp so you don't have to see her again. You should definately do that!

Well I think I am about to OV so OH will have a good night tonight! We've decided to not wait a cycle and just go for it. I'm way too impaitent and with these silly cycles I would have to wait until new year. I had a very near positive OPK yesterday so hopefully I will get a positive this afternoon.

 

[rusks]

welcome back misslarue

happy Bding girls xx

 

[Misslarue]

Hey girls

Hows everyone doing?

I still haven't OV. Been going through a stupid amount of OPKs. D'oh!
Also I got my letter through for my early scan OH is going to ring up and cancel it for me, bless him.

aarrrggghh getting frustrated now, I want to ovulate!!

 

[A&J]

Hi everyone

Hey girls

Hows everyone doing?

I still haven't OV. Been going through a stupid amount of OPKs. D'oh!
Also I got my letter through for my early scan OH is going to ring up and cancel it for me, bless him.

aarrrggghh getting frustrated now, I want to ovulate!!

I am doing fine thanks I like you am waiting to ovulate and it is soooo annoying My fertility monitor is still on high so that is 10 days now that it has been on high I suppose that high is better then low though unless it is broken and stuck on high

 

[Misslarue]

Hows everyone?

How you doing A&J? Any OV yet?

I noticed EWCM yeterday...........funny I would never notice this sort of thing before TTC
Anyhoo after checking the internet I'm supposed to OV in the next few days. Still getting negative OPKs though

I don't know, its all a bit confusing! I'm on day 27 (counting from the first day of my miscarriage)

 

[rusks]

Hows everyone?

How you doing A&J? Any OV yet?

I noticed EWCM yeterday...........funny I would never notice this sort of thing before TTC
Anyhoo after checking the internet I'm supposed to OV in the next few days. Still getting negative OPKs though

I don't know, its all a bit confusing! I'm on day 27 (counting from the first day of my miscarriage)

i would say if you getting EWCM hun then get BDing and try and catch that egg, all the best xx

maybe you could be getting shorter cycle - wouldn't that be fab!!

 

[Storm.]

hi Just thought I would check in, am I ok to stil be here?! I joined then didnt come back, I was so convinced my af would be on time

its now officialy AWOL with no signs! Just me normal tired grumpy self actually the tiredness is a new thing, but hey ho! oo saying that stomach ache coming on now but could be anything!!!
(monday it will be 3 weeks since it was due!)

Sorry AJ its not been lucky for you yet, heres hopeing we end up with a BFP together so we can trash the tris together!

to those lucky buggers with BFPs already congrats hope you have a happy nine months
to the rest of us have fun BDin and loads baby dust to you all

xxxxxx

 

[Tina & Gabs]

Hey Ladies

Missalure; I would def get BD'ing hun; really hope you catch your egg this month
Sorry you got that letter from the hospial hun.

A & J hope you OV soon! Lots of babydust

Hey Baby storm; good luck hun and lots of babydust

I'm on day 12 at the moment; no signs of OV yet.
I have a really strong feeling that something is going to happen this month though; don't know why! We shall see.....

Good luck everyone

 

[A&J]

As normal I have NO idea what is happening with my cycles My monitor did not peak at all it was on high for 10 days (cd 15 - 24) and on cd 17 and 18 I had very strong lines on opks and lots of ewcm and some twinges so I 'think' I ov around then! and also around cd 20 my cm was dry! I am not sure why it did not peak maybe I did a test wrong or something

Have you oved yet Misslarue? hopefully you have and that you catch the egg

hi Just thought I would check in, am I ok to stil be here?! I joined then didnt come back, I was so convinced my af would be on time

Sorry AJ its not been lucky for you yet, heres hopeing we end up with a BFP together so we can trash the tris together!

Of course you are still welcome here babes and yes we defo have to trash the tris together !!! and all of the others fab ladies in TTC! I really hope the stomach ache is a little bean for you!

Hey Ladies

I'm on day 12 at the moment; no signs of OV yet.
I have a really strong feeling that something is going to happen this month though; don't know why! We shall see.....

Good luck everyone

I hope you ov soon and catch the egg! and I hope that your feeling is correct! good luck!

Hope everyone is well and sending you all lots of sticky babydust xxxxx

 

[Misslarue]

baby-storm welcome back hun, the more the merrier!

Tina & Gabs hopefully your OV is not long now. I don't want to jinx it but I have a really strong feeling this month too. Lets hope we're both right

A&J with your CM, it does sound like you have OV hun I really hope you catch this month, if only so you never have to see that consultant again!

Well I got a positive OPK last night. Day 29
Had BD last night and will again tomorrow. Come on lil spermy!

 

[A&J]

baby-storm welcome back hun, the more the merrier!

Tina & Gabs hopefully your OV is not long now. I don't want to jinx it but I have a really strong feeling this month too. Lets hope we're both right

A&J with your CM, it does sound like you have OV hun I really hope you catch this month, if only so you never have to see that consultant again!

Well I got a positive OPK last night. Day 29
Had BD last night and will again tomorrow. Come on lil spermy!

I am dreading seeing the dragon again in Feb hopefully I will be pg before then so I don't have to see her

Yayyyy I am so pleased you got a +OPK get babydancing and really hope you catch the eggy

 

[Amelie30]

I think I should join in here

I have never charted my cycle before and dont really want to get caught up in OV, temps etc, I would really like to just try for the first 6 months or so to see what happens naturally BUT I thought it would be useful to know when I was due on

I thought back and made a few educated guesses but the first proper one I recorded started on 15th Ocotber, which out me on day 37 today (guess that is not "normal"?)
However, I only stopped taking my pill 9 days ago so could that have just messed it up?

 

[Misslarue]

Huge congrats to Curlywurly on her BFP
This club is getting very lucky!

Welcome to Amelie30

 

[A&J]

Congrats curlywurly

Welcome Amelie30

How is everyone doing? I am on cd 30 and I think af is on her way either that or I have had IB but I really really think that it is AF I should be happy though if it is AF as it will be another short cycle but I am gutted as we bd LOADS around when I think I oved.......o well on to month 20 and cycle 16.

Good Luck ladies

 

[Misslarue]

A&J have you started spotting hun??