TTC with irregular cycles

[rusks]

sorry i'll get a grip just having a low day thanks guys xx

 

[Misslarue]

i don't know i ovulated late so i will wait til next monday my temps have taken a dip 8dpo so i don't know whats going on that normally signifies AF but it hasn't come yet, i am symptom spotting like mad i just don't know whats going on with me and its getting me down i'm so scared they messed up my tubes when i had luke as my caersaren was terrible i so scared i can't get PG again i knopw i'm being irrational cos its only 3rd cycle of trying but thats nearly 5 months with my cycles i guess i'll know more as the week goes on

I know what you mean hun
I OV but still didn't have af until 67 days! Sometimes its a wonder what our bodies are doing!
Still a good sign that AF hasn't shown up yet hun
You are not being irrational This TTC lark is very testing, excuse the pun!
No wonder it took me 28 months last time with a 67 day cycle! We will get there hun
Good luck

 

[rusks]

i know reality check for me haven't been trying long so getting a grip now. nice to talk it out though

what will be will be for sure.

 

[Misslarue]

reality check for you? I'm only on month one and I'm already going crazy!! You're still normal!
Can't imagine what I will be like by the time I get to 3rd cycle!

........its so funny, when I was in my teens, I remember being scared to fall pregnant if a boy so much as kissed me! How things change!

 

[rhian85]

i don't know i ovulated late so i will wait til next monday my temps have taken a dip 8dpo so i don't know whats going on that normally signifies AF but it hasn't come yet, i am symptom spotting like mad i just don't know whats going on with me and its getting me down i'm so scared they messed up my tubes when i had luke as my caersaren was terrible i so scared i can't get PG again i knopw i'm being irrational cos its only 3rd cycle of trying but thats nearly 5 months with my cycles i guess i'll know more as the week goes on

awww hun... have u thought about seeing ur doctor ? get bloods done like me? or may be ask fr a scan to check ur insides?? we have been tryin since april now and still no joy so i know how it feels hun.
but this is what this thread is for , for us to come have a moan when we have low days and i bet everyone of us in here has loads of them in a cycle - i for sure do

hope ur feelin a bit better today

 

[Storm.]

hey up thought I would come nosey see what your all up to!! I never thought I would see a bunch of women actually wishing for there AF to hurry up!!

I have no idea when Im next due, I had one on the 8th august, which was on & off for 8 days, (that was my first after having implamon out 4 weeks before)
then a week later I spotted in the day now nothing since!
My cycles used to be every six weeks, but I dont know if thats going to be the same this time round? If so Im due next week, so when would I OV Im cluless with all that stuff!
OH & I BD every other day (pretty much) and we never use anythig but I dont ever do the stick my leg in the air after just prefereing to make a mad dash to the loo before I get moaned at for making the bed messy!!!

OOO I dont know its all confuddling!!

 

[mrs_metal]

My cycles used to be every six weeks, but I dont know if thats going to be the same this time round? If so Im due next week, so when would I OV Im cluless with all that stuff!

If your cycles are six weeks then I'd expect you to OV around 4 weeks into your cycle but if you're BD'ing every other day then you've got the best chance of catching that egg whenever it appears

OH & I BD every other day (pretty much) and we never use anythig but I dont ever do the stick my leg in the air after just prefereing to make a mad dash to the loo before I get moaned at for making the bed messy!!!

Cheeky bugger he created the the stuff that makes the mess not you

 

[rusks]

........its so funny, when I was in my teens, I remember being scared to fall pregnant if a boy so much as kissed me! How things change!

i know!!

 

[rusks]

i don't know i ovulated late so i will wait til next monday my temps have taken a dip 8dpo so i don't know whats going on that normally signifies AF but it hasn't come yet, i am symptom spotting like mad i just don't know whats going on with me and its getting me down i'm so scared they messed up my tubes when i had luke as my caersaren was terrible i so scared i can't get PG again i knopw i'm being irrational cos its only 3rd cycle of trying but thats nearly 5 months with my cycles i guess i'll know more as the week goes on

awww hun... have u thought about seeing ur doctor ? get bloods done like me? or may be ask fr a scan to check ur insides?? we have been tryin since april now and still no joy so i know how it feels hun.
but this is what this thread is for , for us to come have a moan when we have low days and i bet everyone of us in here has loads of them in a cycle - i for sure do

hope ur feelin a bit better today

thanks hun really appreciate that. i am a bit better today getting my hopes up it was an implantation dip - probably setting myself up for a big disappointment but we'll see.

babystorm my cycles about 6 weeks long i tend to ovulate on day 28ish which is 4 weeks, try and get a pattern write down your cycle lengths and then you should ovulate 10-14 days pre AF, you might notice other symptoms around this time which would suggest you are ovulating and you can BD regularly around this time.

 

[Storm.]

Cheeky bugger he created the the stuff that makes the mess not you

Good point Ill remind him of that small factor after er yea later!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[ejjie]

Yay for AF Misslarue

That's cool with 3 of us OV'ing this weekend 26th september will be 14 dpo for me (I OV'd on Friday) I'm not going to test til then so when are you ladies testing?

Snap Mrs Metal,

26th for me if I get 14 days luteal phase but my other LPs have been 9 or 10 days which really isn't long enough for the egg... When I get my scan results on Thursday I'm going to tell the doc that as it's not good.... for a long 2WW... I deserve one with long cycles!!!

Rusks - I hope you are feeling better today and that the dip was implantation...surely it can't be AF so early

 

[rhian85]

hey hun...with the help of a few on here i think i OV'd 2 days ago as i was gettin funny twinging / pulling sensatio nnear my hip bone on the left side + loads of very clear EWCM so have been BDin so im hoping it was ov and that i have been in with a good chance

Hey buddy!!!

I OV'd on Friday too according to Fertility Friend so we will be doing our 2WW together.

I'm not certain I OV'd cos I didn't get the pains this month but I got 2/3 strength OPK on Thursday night and raised temps since so I'm hoping my temps stay up to prove it!

xxx

hey hun..yay would love to be testing buddies in the 2ww with u

 

[mrs_metal]

26th for me if I get 14 days luteal phase but my other LPs have been 9 or 10 days which really isn't long enough for the egg... When I get my scan results on Thursday I'm going to tell the doc that as it's not good.... for a long 2WW... I deserve one with long cycles!!!

I've started using progesterone cream this month as my LP's are too short for comfort, I'll let you know how I get on. Hopefully your doctor will listen and help you sort them out

 

[ejjie]

26th for me if I get 14 days luteal phase but my other LPs have been 9 or 10 days which really isn't long enough for the egg... When I get my scan results on Thursday I'm going to tell the doc that as it's not good.... for a long 2WW... I deserve one with long cycles!!!

I've started using progesterone cream this month as my LP's are too short for comfort, I'll let you know how I get on. Hopefully your doctor will listen and help you sort them out

I'm thinking about progesterone cream, did you get it prescribed from the doc or buy it of the internet? x

 

[mrs_metal]

I got it off the internet (from a link Babydust posted, it arrived within a few days) I didn't bother with the doctor as I thought they wouldn't be interested until a year since my m/c and I don't want to wait that long and after reading up on it I didn't think it could do any harm.

But if your Doctor is already investigating for you they may prescribe it or recomend it for you, the info I found on the net did suggest that natural progesterone cream is more effective than synthasised(sp?) creams or tablets

 

[mrs_metal]

Ejjie, tell me to bog off if I'm being nosey but I was just looking at your chart.
I noticed that most saturdays are discarded (I remembered you said you usualy have a couple of drinks on a friday) and I thought OV was supposed to be just before 3 temp rises but it's given your OV as just before 1 massive rise and so wondered if that rise was from alcohol? and if you discarded last saturday would it show you OV'd a couple of days later?

I could be completely wrong as I don't chart myself so don't be afraid to tell me I'm being an idiot but if it is wrong then you can correct it as you need to know for certain which day OV was to keep an eye on your LP this cycle to tell your doctor.

Sorry if I'm butting in where I'm not needed

 

[ejjie]

Ejjie, tell me to bog off if I'm being nosey but I was just looking at your chart.
I noticed that most saturdays are discarded (I remembered you said you usualy have a couple of drinks on a friday) and I thought OV was supposed to be just before 3 temp rises but it's given your OV as just before 1 massive rise and so wondered if that rise was from alcohol? and if you discarded last saturday would it show you OV'd a couple of days later?

I could be completely wrong as I don't chart myself so don't be afraid to tell me I'm being an idiot but if it is wrong then you can correct it as you need to know for certain which day OV was to keep an eye on your LP this cycle to tell your doctor.

Sorry if I'm butting in where I'm not needed

Oh god Mrs Metal don't ever think you should blog off!!!

I do drink most Friday nights, I get home from work for the weekend and I need to!

I questined them picking up OV but I did get a 2/3 strength OPK on Thursday after work which ties in with that and my temps have stayed high since Friday so it's hard to tell

It's funny, my Saturday temps have been identical for a month and I do wake up at 6.15 to take them just like normal! It is definitely the alcohol

The other thing I'm unsure about is that we've had the heating coming in the morning since the end of last week so maybe it could be that...I suppose the only way I will know is to keep on charting and look at my next cycle for accuracy...

I will mention my previous LPs to my doc tomorrow (cos I won't know about this one by then anyway) and see what she says. I know it is a common side effect from coming off the pill so maybe she won't touch me with drugs yet but it's worth mentioning

I hate this thread but love it at the same time!!!!

Thanks for stalking me, don't blog off!

 

[mrs_metal]

don't blame you for needing a drink on a friday, i definitely know the feeling

if it ties in with your opk then that makes sense so hopefully you've caught that egg

if not hope the doctor takes it seriously

 

[mrs_metal]

Went away for a few days to the New Forest with Hubby so haven't been able to post for a bit.

Anyway I started spotting yesterday, hoped it was IB but by this morning it's gotten too heavy so must be AF so my LP has gone down to 9 days, even though I've been using progesterone cream! So now I'm gonna have to get off my arse and go see the doctor Hopefully he'll listen to me.

 

[rhian85]

Went away for a few days to the New Forest with Hubby so haven't been able to post for a bit.

Anyway I started spotting yesterday, hoped it was IB but by this morning it's gotten too heavy so must be AF so my LP has gone down to 9 days, even though I've been using progesterone cream! So now I'm gonna have to get off my arse and go see the doctor Hopefully he'll listen to me.

hey hun i too have not been able to post alot this week im starting a new job 2mrw as a nursery nurse (was previous to have christopher) soooo i have been busy gettin things like house work done. im sorry ur AF has arrived hun but then when ttc with irreg cycles that sometimes is a blessin to see AF arrive

i agree with you hun, you should see your doc and force them to listen and run tests like the bloods i have had done..best of luck with the docs....

i still have no sign of AF think i O'vd a week ago so im waitin to test on the 29th..cervix is high im not sure if thats a good sign or not ???

ELLE...was soo pleased to hear nothin obvious was found on ur test..what are the next steps ???