trim3 sex drive..

[Squeakz]

mine has crashed and burned... used to be the same isobel but quite frankly cba....my bump hurts, i feel pretty unsexy when i have to carefully manoevre myself off a sofa, rolling over in bed, when he touches the bump it dont make me feel sexy or switched on either, im tired....blah blah blha

Its not that i dont want to.....i do...its just too much effort lol......and if im on top then i hate looking down and seeing the bump it really turns me off....haha....

i just feel bad for him, cos he misses out...muh, there are other ways i spose xx

 

[isobel84]

yeah i never thought i say this as OH is big and heavy but GOD i miss him laying on my kissing me at the same time... now even if we try other things its just so uncomfy we end up doing it doggy.. and to be honest... then it could be anyone behind you, its just sex if you know what i mean.. not "lovemaking"

 

[isobel84]

OH txt me last night saying he misses his little family and are coming around tonight.. im getting all excited but i know that as im working to 9 tonight so by the time we get to bed im gonna be in to much pain and to tired.. but fingers crossed cuz it will be day 6 today.. and thats NOT on. I dont wanna dry up down there..

 

[Josie TB]

Isobel - thank you for this post - I've been dying to ask the same question but I thought it may offend people!!

For the last 3 months I've never felt so horny in all my life. Maybe it's Mother Nature's sick joke - after all, my previously peachy bum now has a "Wide Load" sticker on it; my boobs look like someones drawn the London Underground map on them in blue felt tip; I'm still constipated (and have a wind problem); I'm often so tired that I fall asleep at work; and I continually pee my pants.

Despite all this, I need the big O at least 3 or 4 times a day, either DIY or with OH. I've even contacted the NHS helpline to ask if it was safe to use my rabbit at this stage of my pregnancy (I didn't feel I could ask my MW or GP!!!)

I was even contemplating jumping on top of the washing machine repair man last week....only joking....I'm so big I would have flattened him.

OH thinks it's wonderful as he says I'm more adventurous than ever despite the fact that the only really comfortable position for sex is the spoons position. I can do the on top bit for a few minutes but not long enough for me to have the big O.

It's strange that it does feel like sex with my OH, as opposed to lovemaking, even though I do love him so much.

If my first pregnancy is anything to go by, then my sex drive will dissappear completely for 6 months so we might as well make the most of it.


Josie
XXXX

 

[Lacey's Mummy]

I wish I felt like that Josie I'm too tierd for the deed ATM Tim works away during the week anyway so when he does get home for the weekend either I'm too tierd or he is!! We're a right old married couple! Hahaa

 

[Rayoflight]

Josie I think I love you! That's gotta be my fave post. Especially the London underground in blue felt tip and ringing NHS direct! Ha ha ha you're ace! X