totally gutted

[Lilelephant]

i just found out that my OH;s ex girlfriend is pregnant.
I havent stopped crying, i really dont want OH to find out, cos he will be so mad he left her for me and she can have kids with no problems and all i do is miscarry time after time!

 

[DW1978]

Don't be silly, of course he wont be mad that he left her for you. I'm sure he'd rather be with you no matter what then someone he is unhappy with just to have a baby xx

 

[tinselcat]

Hey hunny, that must be really hard hearing that news.

But please don't pre-judge your husband's reaction, it's you he loved and wanted to marry.

 

[Young Mum 21 x]

oh please dont think that way, he loves you for you.. not her! your time will come and i hope its very very soon xx

 

[Lilelephant]

I just feel like I have let him down

 

[LoopyLouize]

Oh Hun this isn't your fault ! Don't be blaming yourself!
X

 

[Samsgirl]

hey hon....i felt exactly the same yesterday...first thing i said to sam on saturday night was 'im sorry' and he got really mad at me and said it wasnt my fault and i was the most important thing in the world to him...and your hubby will think just the same...

i even said to him last night 'what if we cant' and he said 'well then it will be just us'

so try not to worry, they split for a reason and he married you cos he loves you
xx

 

[cosmicgirl]

She's his ex for a reason hun, your time will come very very soon x

 

[rachcraig]

Like Cosmicgirl said, she's his ex for a reason.

I felt like a let down to my OH after my mcs but these things don't happen for a reason so you can't blame yourself.

Big hugs xx

 

[1986princess]

that mustve been hard to hear hun, it would grate on me aswell! hes with u and happy and ur time will come( even tho it doesnt feel like it now) u havnt let anybody down its nature and you have no control over it x

 

[p1nk11]

he loves you for you, no matter what. Your time will come xx

 

[Butterflykisses]

It's you he loves enough to have married. You're is family now and whether it's just the 2 of you now or wen a LO does come along remember that. Your time will come. Be strong hun. xx

 

[k8_005]

its difficult to hear news like this i know, but he married YOU not her and he married YOU because he loved YOU whether you can have children or not, your time will come i am positive,
it just means that you are meant to spend a bit more time just the two of you before any additions come. dont rush nature. xxxxxx

 

[k8_005]

its difficult to hear news like this i know, but he married YOU not her and he married YOU because he loved YOU whether you can have children or not, your time will come i am positive,
it just means that you are meant to spend a bit more time just the two of you before any additions come. dont rush nature. xxxxxx

 

[k8_005]

I just feel like I have let him down

i feel this way a lot, the reason the docs think my baby had anecaphaly is because for some reason my body wouldnt retain the folic acid levels needed im on a prescribed higher dosage in the hope when we try again my body wont fail me, but its no garentee that is even the reason and our chances of it reoccouring while still "low risk as its unusual" have increased significantly now we have "history" of the condition. all any of us can do is do our best and let nature do the rest if its meant to be it will be xxxx

 

[Princess81]

he loves you and not his ex, that is why he married you. None of it is your fault, you did not let him down lots of love xxx

 

[Lilelephant]

OH still dose t know I just want us to have our baby so what everyone else does doesn't matter. And I am desperate for our appointment to come through from the specialist. But firstly 9 days after mc I would like the bleeding to stop so at least we can get back to trying cos it is so frustrating not doing anything

 

[Tinkerbump]

Hi hun, i'm sure he wont be mad, your his true love now! Stay strong together and support each other

 

[Bead]

Hey hun, i know how hard it is to hear news like that after such a terrible blow. But give your fella the benefit of the doubt. You're his lady no matter what, and no doubt he's totally in love with you, and only you. Big hugs Xx