Sorry to ask Ladies but when I was giving birth to Kaiden 8 weeks ago, I managed to tear my Libia (flap of skin on the Vag, I think), the midwife said she couldnt stich it due to the softness of the skin, and was adamant that it would heal of its own accord. well 8 weeks later it still hasnt healed, the edges have healed up so i dont see the two sides ever healing together, has anyone ever had the same thing, im too embaressed to ask my doctor coz hes male. thanks