Jayceesmumma
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Cut to the chase here..
We're thinking of having a baby.. but im not 100% sure one min, but the next i am.. on the one hand, getting all the kids out of the way early means the sooner we get our lives back LOL, but then we're okay at the moment, we get to go out, not very often at all, but we do maybe once every 4-5 weeks? and we can have weekends without the girls once E is older (easier for 'rents) and having another will prolong this.. but if we wait say a year or so, we have to do the whole baby thing (i love it tho) all over again and take longer to get time for us if you know what i mean? Plus he's not the father of my first two, we've been together a year and a bit, we dont live together at the mo, but he's moving in after xmas and before new yr lol. He works local to him and he wont change his job so he will be commuting via car about 2 hours there and 2 back. hes moving because i found out the day before our 1yr anniversary (27th oct) that he cheated 4 months into our relationship with his ex. alot of lies were told before and even after i found out. we're working on it. My girls love him, E asks for him every day, as does J. (we only see him at weekends) He's been around since E was 5 months old and he is all she knows. I couldnt bear to take him away from her. And he loves them as his own. My girls dont have their real father (for those who know me, you know why!!) and id hate to take him away from them, they love him.
So.. i was only gonna do a short post but as always i ramble lol
Do you think it would be a good idea or bad idea to have another baby?
I dont want much of an age gap between my kids, and if i spend the rest of my life with him (which i plan to regardless of what happened) we're going to have kids anyway, as i cant deny him of his bloodline lol!
Whats ur opinions? Honesty is valued
Thanks
xx
We're thinking of having a baby.. but im not 100% sure one min, but the next i am.. on the one hand, getting all the kids out of the way early means the sooner we get our lives back LOL, but then we're okay at the moment, we get to go out, not very often at all, but we do maybe once every 4-5 weeks? and we can have weekends without the girls once E is older (easier for 'rents) and having another will prolong this.. but if we wait say a year or so, we have to do the whole baby thing (i love it tho) all over again and take longer to get time for us if you know what i mean? Plus he's not the father of my first two, we've been together a year and a bit, we dont live together at the mo, but he's moving in after xmas and before new yr lol. He works local to him and he wont change his job so he will be commuting via car about 2 hours there and 2 back. hes moving because i found out the day before our 1yr anniversary (27th oct) that he cheated 4 months into our relationship with his ex. alot of lies were told before and even after i found out. we're working on it. My girls love him, E asks for him every day, as does J. (we only see him at weekends) He's been around since E was 5 months old and he is all she knows. I couldnt bear to take him away from her. And he loves them as his own. My girls dont have their real father (for those who know me, you know why!!) and id hate to take him away from them, they love him.
So.. i was only gonna do a short post but as always i ramble lol
Do you think it would be a good idea or bad idea to have another baby?
I dont want much of an age gap between my kids, and if i spend the rest of my life with him (which i plan to regardless of what happened) we're going to have kids anyway, as i cant deny him of his bloodline lol!
Whats ur opinions? Honesty is valued
Thanks
xx