Thoughts run away with me

[suzzi]

does anyone else have irrational thoughts?

im going out my mind thinking OH is up to something even though deep down i know he isnt, but cant stop thinking about it. ive absolutely no reason to suspect him of anything.

could it be that while i was pregnant with dd 15 years ago my ex cheated on me, do you think it all comes from that.

I feel like im losing the plot!!!!!

 

[Lilelephant]

Hormones hun!

I had the same thoughts a few weeks ago and my OH is the least likely man to cheat lol

 

[suzzi]

think its lots of things, had hard week at work, might have to have c section which im not happy about, were banned from having sex and i want it so im thinking he must be cant with me!! and a girl at work has just found out her OH has been on dating websites and has been telling me all sorts.

think i need a cuddle of OH he thinks im mad lol xx

 

[Lilelephant]

Hope that girl at your work gets rid of her OH ! Twat!

Def big cuddles needed!

 

[Jayceesmumma]

Oh hun sorry ur feeling like this! I'm the same at the mo.. Can't have sex in case of preterm.. OH working late.. And my ex cheated alot while I was preg especially with Ellie.. It's hard to get over the past and the added hormones really don't help situations like this... Defo have a talk with ur OH about it so he can reassure you and give u lots of cuddles and kisses

 

[i.love]

they say pg girls worry about their OHs a lot... It's normal - we are very vulnerable now, so of course we worry...

I also went through a stage of worrying that my OH doesn't look at me the way he used to, doesn't want to talk as much as he used to, etc... Maybe I was right - I'm sure he gets worried about things, so maybe that's why he was not himself for some time... Anyway, I'm over it now

try not to think about it hun... I'm sure everything is fine

 

[suzzi]

thanks ladies,

feeling a little better now as sent OH a text saying i was feeling tearful and he rung me straight away to reassure me all is ok x x hes also text me a few times to say he loves me lots and all will be fine.

Jayceemummy - ive just posted on your wall x x sending you big hugs x you have lots more on your mind than me x x but thank you so much for replying x x x keep strong x x

 

[mum2b410]

Def not on your own on this one suzzi.............think our hormones just make us paranoid, irrational and lose perspective! Glad your OH is being supportive and that you're feeling a bit better xx

 

[Jayceesmumma]

So glad u got such a positive response from your OH it's hard work dealing with all these emotions especially when you have past memories that haunt you.. My poor OH gets it so hard when I'm in my paranoid mind set bless him lol but I warned him about it all when we got together.. If I hadn't I don't think he'd have stuck around!!

 

[Rachaellius]

I'm exactly the same too. To make it worse my OH is going out on the town in Birmingham tomorrow night. So I'm gonna be sat here worrying my head off x

 

[Jayceesmumma]

Hate it when they go out... especially when we cant!

 

[Rachaellius]

Hate it when they go out... especially when we cant!

I know totally not fair! I would kill for a glass of wine right now!!!

 

[Jayceesmumma]

Apple vodka and lemonade!!! Mmmmmm