The weirdest thing happened today!!!

[Samsgirl]

Good evening ladies...

Ok....so this is the story so far...me and my boss get on really well. She thinks the same as me and we have the same sense of humour....a bit like twins seperated at birth, except she is about 10 years older than me!!

She has a gift of being able to 'sense' things and gets message from beyond the grave etc.....now some of you will think this is all twoddle..lol..and i dont quite know what to believe, but i do believe that some people do have a certain gift as i have been to spiritualists and fortune tellers and been amazed!

Anyway.....after I told her I was pregnant...she went really distant, I never hardly heard from her.....like not at all...and we were always in touch, usually on a daily basis...it went very business like and i thought i must have done something wrong or she wasnt happy for me or something...

yesterday we had our first meeting since i miscarried and she was proper harsh with me, there was no warmth...it left me in tears cos she literally was so harsh and told me to move on from mc etc and not to ttc too hard etc....i was left really upset last night and wanting to change jobs...

then she rang me this morning....in tears....told me she ha to explain why she was being so harsh and even she couldnt understand it herself...she told me she had to have her boss head on and tell me i needed to get back to business so to speak, to make sure my job was safe etc....but she said there was underlying feelings and she finally admitted why she was harsh and why she has been so distant..

she admitted that she could sense there was something going wrong with the pregnancy......that she knew i was going to miscarry! and she just couldnt face being close to me because it was so sad for her...how freaky is that!

then last night in the middle of the night, she was woken by the spirit of a little girl who told her to pass a message onto me and the message was 'tell her im okay, tell her that i will be back and tell her to throw those sticks away'...

my boss has no idea i use opks etc and she said 'i dunno what she meant by sticks'......she was in tears telling me all this so i do think it's genuine as i have never seen her show emotion like that....

sorry for the long post but just had to tell you all......

xx

 

[star fish]

Hmm, if what she says is true then she hasnt been very supportive!

Not a very helpful comment, just the first observation that springs to mind x

 

[Young Mum 21 x]

that gave me shivers also.. a bit teary eyed
ive been to 3 psycics and also going back to one again end of april..
its amazing what some actually know! xx

 

[Mummy2Adam]

I believe in things like this hunny and reading it had me in tears.
I remember after my mmc people that i had been close to and who I thought would of been supportive didnt come anywhere near as they didnt know how to be so if your boss knew something very early on that would explain the way she has been with you. From her side of things it must of been very hard and its took alot for her to tell you the truth.
Id be very comforted knowing that your little angel is fine. Massive x x

 

[Samsgirl]

it made me cry as soon as she said 'a little girl'..........would have loved a little girl....

she still hurt me yesterday and so im a bit wary but i do believe that she can 'sense' things.....xx

 

[Young Mum 21 x]

you'll get there samsgirl xxx

 

[Mummy2Adam]

I still be wary hunny especially as she said those horrible things to you yesterday.
I know when i have something on my mind and im still deciding whether its right to say something or not, it makes me quite snappy, not to the point of saying horrible things but everyone is different.
Look after yourself sweetie and dont let her upset you any more x x

 

[LouiseB]

Weird. It's hard to believe

I kind of agree with Starfish though - i don't see the logic in her knowing you was going to mc and instead of being ready to help you through it, she turns distant and even nasty.

That's not what i'd expect a friend to do...

I hope you find comfort in it though

 

[Samsgirl]

yeah thats what i couldnt get my head round yesterday.....going to now be the one keeping my distance....

did bring me comfort but i dont think im ready to throw my opks away...lol xx

 

[Moley]

Wow your story brought a tear to my eye!!

I understand why you're wary and understand other peoples concerns too...

But the way I saw it as I read it (before reading all the comments) was that she thought by distancing herself from you, maybe she could prevent what she was sseeing from actually happening. Unfortunately that didn't work and her anger at you yesterday was more down to the fact that she hadn't been able to share with you what she was seeing and her distance may have even contributed. Her anger was her guilt and nothing to do with you. That's why she was was so emotional and apologetic. That's just my take on it but its up to you what you believe.

If you do decide to believe its nice to know that your little girl is now an angel watching over you and giving you that extra support and blessings on your TTC journey.

x x

 

[maybe baby]

Wow that's weird!

Are you sure she's not been checking your internet use and read your posts on PF when you're meant to be working maybe that's how she knows about the sticks??

Or maybe I'm just cynical and she was telling the truth......

xx

 

[star fish]

I think everyone knows about 'pee-sticks'.

I'm sorry I know this sounds ridiculously skeptical coming from someone who reads tarot cards, ceromancy and does spells, but her behaviour just sounds 'wrong'.

If I sensed something bad about someones pregnancy I would warn them, just gently, I would never be distant and cold, thats just not making sense. If not making it up then she sounds selfish and a bad friend!

Sorry, I do hope you have a little girl coming back though, that bit sounds very reassuring xxx

 

[Spinneygirl]

Sounds dodgy, i think shes is just messing with your head and in rather a cruel way at that!

Please be abit weary xxx

 

[Mummy2Adam]

How are you feeling today sweetie? Has she said anything else to you? x x

 

[Sparkle24]

I do belive in all things like that (i do see ghosts)

If i knew something bad was going to happen i would tell them.

Any one can acces this site and find out info though, be wary.


I hope your ok xx

 

[heartbroken]

Wow this is interesting.. I believe in everything like this.. I went to see a medium a few weeks back and she said my brother was beside me.. I only have 3 sisters! But then i rememberd my mam had a misscairage years and years ago.. She also said that im worrying that il not be able to get pregnant again (true) but it will happen that il have a healthy baby girl! Thats the second medium that told me i would have another baby..

 

[Samsgirl]

Wow that's weird!

Are you sure she's not been checking your internet use and read your posts on PF when you're meant to be working maybe that's how she knows about the sticks??

Or maybe I'm just cynical and she was telling the truth......

xx

hello

never use internet at work cos i work in a bank and they are all blocked...xx

she picked up on other things too...like when her father in law had died etc...she does some freaky things! xx

 

[Samsgirl]

Wow your story brought a tear to my eye!!

I understand why you're wary and understand other peoples concerns too...

But the way I saw it as I read it (before reading all the comments) was that she thought by distancing herself from you, maybe she could prevent what she was sseeing from actually happening. Unfortunately that didn't work and her anger at you yesterday was more down to the fact that she hadn't been able to share with you what she was seeing and her distance may have even contributed. Her anger was her guilt and nothing to do with you. That's why she was was so emotional and apologetic. That's just my take on it but its up to you what you believe.

If you do decide to believe its nice to know that your little girl is now an angel watching over you and giving you that extra support and blessings on your TTC journey.

x x

that makes a lot of sense...

Thanks

xx

 

[Samsgirl]

I think everyone knows about 'pee-sticks'.

I'm sorry I know this sounds ridiculously skeptical coming from someone who reads tarot cards, ceromancy and does spells, but her behaviour just sounds 'wrong'.

If I sensed something bad about someones pregnancy I would warn them, just gently, I would never be distant and cold, thats just not making sense. If not making it up then she sounds selfish and a bad friend!

Sorry, I do hope you have a little girl coming back though, that bit sounds very reassuring xxx

thanks chick and yeah dont worry.......i am being very wary.....will be keeping it strictly professional from now on.....i am doing really well at the moment again but its just making me thinkg 'right going to make as much money as i can until baby arrives' whenever that may be.......just keep my head down and get on with it xx

 

[Samsgirl]

im okay....thanks for all your lovely comments...i am being very wary.....

i saw a medium a few years ago who told me i would have my firat baby when i was 35....i am still 35 til feb next year....so if i get pregnant in may, that could stlll be true...the same medium told me that i def would have 1 child but to seek medical advice before the 2nd....god knows what that meant...have worried about that ever since and that was 5 years ago!!! did she mean 2nd pregnancy...am i going to have problems...

as for my bos..not going to tell her im pregnant again til im about 15 weeks....then she cant freak me out or worry me if she goes distant again or anything!!! crazy stuff....

i saw another tea leaf reader who predicted me meeting my OH, she even got his name right..and she said my 1st pregnancy would be single and then 2nd pregnancy woul be twins.....so if i get my bfp in may, will it be a double celebration??...lol

xx