So my hubby and I have been planning TTC for a number of years to get me (and us, really) to a point in our careers where I can comfortably afford to have a baby and without it negatively affecting my career progression. It has been great trying but now I've just started my new job and part of me now wants to wait until I'm settled in and working properly and I always have that fear that I'll be a burden on the rest of my team. There are only three others so I will definitely be! I'm not going to stop TTC but I do feel torn about it at times. There just has to be a time when you put yourself first. Has this affected many of you?