Struggling to be positive :(

[*sara*]

Im really struggling to be positive with this pregnancy after 2 losses this year, i didnt manage to get far past 8 weeks with the last 2 and im about 7 now so really worrying if its going to happen again, especially since i had an early scan and they found a haematoma sitting above my sac.

 

[Flossy82]

All i want to do is offer these and im always here if you want to talk sweety PM me anytime il be glad to listen

 

[Anna23]

i wish i could offer you words of wisdom but i really can't however i'm here if you wanna chat anytime

 

[*sara*]

Thanks girls Im just feeling maybe im not supposed to have another child, everyone keeps saying to me at least you have a son, some people cant have children...but that doesnt make it any easier for my husband as my son is from a previous relationship and he doesnt have any children. We dont seem to to have any problems conceiving its just keeping them

 

[HollyHobby]

Hi sara I think youre going to worry for a while. Hopefully the time is going to pass super quick and then you can start to relax.

 

[CharlieOne]

Wish there was something i could say, try to keep your chin up and take each day as it comes..Thinking about you x

 

[Tina & Gabs]

Thinking of you

 

[Becky]

I know how you feel, it's so hard to be positive, yet not get your hopes up too high "just in case" and it's so hard because you can't do anything but wait.

There are people here who understand what you're going through so if you need to talk I hope you feel you can. The only thing I can say is to try and take each day at a time, it is possible to enjoy pregnancy after loss, it just takes time.

 

[Cixes]

Thanks girls Im just feeling maybe im not supposed to have another child, everyone keeps saying to me at least you have a son, some people cant have children...but that doesnt make it any easier for my husband as my son is from a previous relationship and he doesnt have any children. We dont seem to to have any problems conceiving its just keeping them

It annoys me when people say to those who are ttc and already have children that 'at least you have a child already' cause i think it can be worse when you want another child, you already know the feeling of carrying a child and the feeling of love that comes when it is born, to know how it feels and crave more is just as bad if not worse than never experiencing it.

I am sending healing thoughts to you and praying that you have a happy and healthy pregnancy

 

[Mik]

Sara I have no words of advice but I have been thinking of you and keeping everything crossed for you