Still stuck here.

[Eternity&ADay]

So we are now in our eight month of trying. I never thought it would take this long. Each month it's just getting harder and harder and I feel like such a failure. How can two people have unprotected sex at the absolute right time each month and eight months later there is still nothing happening!!!?!!! I actually have become so bloody fed up with all the sadness and stress that ttc brings that I really do feel like giving up. I do know that there are people on here who have been trying for even longer than me and my heart does go out to you. This really does suck

 

[Emma2011]

i feel for you, been trying over a year for me but hoping this is my month as im a week late tomorrow and testing tomorrow, but good luck with ttc ... its hard and stressful but everyone gets there. All the best hun. x

 

[positivity :)]

hello hun, i'm on cycle 10 done a pg test this morning and bfn i totally get how you feel, some months are harder than others and its like an emotional rollercoaster. i hope you get your bfp soon hunny xx

 

[Eternity&ADay]

Thank you Emma for reading my rant! All the best for you too, I do hope we all get there in the end x

 

[DaisyPurple]

don't lose heart, It is frustrating, have you been tracking your BBT? I have been trying for about 6 years and only just realised that I need to be doing this, as we have been concentrating our efforts around day 14 and I didnt actually realise that there is only a 36 hour window for conception! I probably sound like a dumbass but anyway, hoping you have some luck with this soon xx

 

[Eternity&ADay]

Thank you positivity, I hope the same for you too. I find that the thing what hurts the most each month is telling my DH that i'm not pregnant. Seeing the dissapointment on his face is soul destroying. Guess you know that feeling too x

 

[Olive]

Hi hun. I too am in month 8 and feel your pain. It can be very hard at times. Hope you (and us all!) get our bfps soon xx

 

[Eternity&ADay]

Thank you PollyP. I haven't tracked my BBT or used ovulation tests, I always get EWCM and tingly sensitive nipples at the same time every month (from day 12 to 14) so I always feel like I know when i'm about to ovulate so I feel confident that we BD at the right time x

 

[Eternity&ADay]

Thank you LauraAnne and I hope you get yours too x

 

[DaisyPurple]

just try and relax hun and I hope it happens soon xx

 

[Applecider]

Hey Hun I can imagine ur feeling so down have u tried every avenue when it comes to tracking yourself and ur partner? My friend was trying for 7 months before she realised there are only a few days when u can actually get pregnant! Have you
Tracked ur ovulation with sticks etc
Done ur temps every morning
Changed ur diet
Etc etc sorry to go on jus wanted to give u ideas

See kezzamunsters getting your baby body ready in the wtt section it's brill!!! Gud luck xx

 

[positivity :)]

yep, its only recently i have started to feel a sort of guilt every month when i get a bfn, my OH wants it so bad, he doesn't let on but i know he does. he said to me tonight, when will u know if you're pg..i said wednesday if my period arrives. i didn't have the heart to say i got a bfn this morning x

 

[Lilelephant]

Hun don't give up. It is so frustrating I know this our 17th month of trying and 3 mc later and it would be so easy to give up but it takes an average if 1 year for normal ppl to concieve. So u aren't alone x x keep going and stay positive

 

[Doodles]

Don't give up, I know it's frustrating and heartbreaking at times, I've actually gotten to the stage where I get really annoyed when I hear about people getting regnant without even trying, I know it's not their fault but it just doesn't seem fare. We've been ttc since April 2010 after mc at 10weeks in March (day before our wedding), we've fallen pregnant again twice since then but mc at 6weeks & 4weeks (I started bleeding the day after we got a BFP).

 

[star fish]

Hi Eternity! Havn't seen you in ages! So glad you're still around (well not glad you are still stuck in ttc of course, but you know what I mean). Chin up, and remember sometimes nothing is wrong, it just takes a while xxxx

 

[Eternity&ADay]

Hi Eternity! Havn't seen you in ages! So glad you're still around (well not glad you are still stuck in ttc of course, but you know what I mean). Chin up, and remember sometimes nothing is wrong, it just takes a while xxxx

Hi Star Fish! I'm very impressed you remember me, i'm a real lurker on here, to be honest I nearly come on here every day but just read through the posts and hang around in the background. I'm gonna try to get more involved though, to let off steam on here so my poor DH can rest his ears for a bit I know its late but I am so sorry for your loss recently, I m/c about five years ago so can appreciate your pain. Lets hope we all get out of here soon for the right reasons x

 

[star fish]

Post more x of course I remember you!