Steelgoddess
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(STFU = SHUT THE FOOK UP)
This is just merely a vent but im am so fecking sick of ppl having comments to make and calling me fcking names. I had a good think last night and thought the next time someone does it i going to pull them up on it...
As pregnant women we need to feel loved and complimented so wtf do ppl especially women who have had kids before (and should know better) feel they have the right to call me names???
There are two particular ladies in my company that do it, I talk to them alot but i don't understand why they feel the need?? Are they trying to embarass me?????
One lady calls me "Turkey Mamma" she keeps saying my baby is going to be big because i look bigger then some (no shit sherlock i wasnt a size 8 to start off with so how on earth would i have a tiny bump anyway?) to start off with i laughed but she does it every fcking day so this morniing i looked at her in front of others and kindly said "Can you stop calling me that please, no seriously!!" Another woman started off by calling me fatty something i feel far from I feel proud of my bump and for once in my life i dont feel fat, so i told her to stop too she hasnt said anything but yesterday at lunchtime she was rubbing my bump but calling me humpty and saying i had a "Lump"!!!
Do ppl want me to smack them?? My BABY is NOT a lump, i told her that I even said my bump is beatiful and i am proud...
Its not so much that the comments are upsetting me i am proud of my pregnancy and refuse to let anyone ruin that its just annoying me ppl think they have the right to say these types of things....
I just dont understand why ppl feel the need to put someone who exudes confidence about their pregnancy...
Anyway thanks for listening feel free to post your vents would love to hear yours too
This is just merely a vent but im am so fecking sick of ppl having comments to make and calling me fcking names. I had a good think last night and thought the next time someone does it i going to pull them up on it...
As pregnant women we need to feel loved and complimented so wtf do ppl especially women who have had kids before (and should know better) feel they have the right to call me names???
There are two particular ladies in my company that do it, I talk to them alot but i don't understand why they feel the need?? Are they trying to embarass me?????
One lady calls me "Turkey Mamma" she keeps saying my baby is going to be big because i look bigger then some (no shit sherlock i wasnt a size 8 to start off with so how on earth would i have a tiny bump anyway?) to start off with i laughed but she does it every fcking day so this morniing i looked at her in front of others and kindly said "Can you stop calling me that please, no seriously!!" Another woman started off by calling me fatty something i feel far from I feel proud of my bump and for once in my life i dont feel fat, so i told her to stop too she hasnt said anything but yesterday at lunchtime she was rubbing my bump but calling me humpty and saying i had a "Lump"!!!
Do ppl want me to smack them?? My BABY is NOT a lump, i told her that I even said my bump is beatiful and i am proud...
Its not so much that the comments are upsetting me i am proud of my pregnancy and refuse to let anyone ruin that its just annoying me ppl think they have the right to say these types of things....
I just dont understand why ppl feel the need to put someone who exudes confidence about their pregnancy...
Anyway thanks for listening feel free to post your vents would love to hear yours too