Aww Kina, all I can say is I totally understand how you feel in respect to Ella's behaviour. Rebecca is the same, screams the place down 90% of the day, until I take her out to the shops, but then is that us giving in to them? I'm not sure. Like u I spoke to my HV about her behaviour and all I get is "some babies are more demanding than others!" Thanks that really helps.
Just like today, no matter what I done, it wasn't enough, cried when we played with her toys, cried when we danced, and sang, so in the end I strapped her into her swiging seat and walked through to the kitchen and shut the door! She went hysterical.
I don't know about Ella, but Rebecca's cry isn't just a cry, she goes hysterical, and very angry.
I feel terrible but when my mum came in she ws all smiles and I said "she's a bloody psycho". Not nice I know, but I was in depths of despair.
Rebecca seems to be at her ears alot too, hers are red raw inside, but I keep getting told by GP its teething related.
All I can say is you're not alone, and maybe it is time you get away for a break, even a nite out, or go and stay with a friend?
You are a fab mum, and have always done the best by Ella, it's just a horrendous stage they are at!!
Plus its worse for you cause you will be tired with being pg, bless.
Take care and keep us posted (as I write this my daughter is screaming that bad her face look like a tomato-I have the future hulk!
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Karrina xx