spotting or period? PLEASE help, can't stop worrying

[Ayvah]

My BF likes to finger me since I said no to having sex, but I think he must have but his penis into me for 10 seconds MAX (me thinking it was his finger.. ) This was on the 17 march.
Could he have ejaculated inside me, he didn't put it in fully? How would you know if he did ejaculate?
I asked but him but he said no, but i still can't shake the feeling.

I'm due for my period around the 3rd of April.
On the 21 march, I had brownish- pinkish discharge, today (23) is the second day.
I don't think this is my period since the urine is till yellow and it's not that heavy.

Possible symptoms- very mild stomach ache (mainly when i think about me bring pregnant, mite be because im stressing a lot about this) and the spotting maybe? and that's about it for now (it's been 2 weeks in total)

The only reason why i think im pregnant is because of the timing, everything fits in (ur supposed to spot around a week).

 

[Young Mum 21 x]

My BF likes to finger me since I said no to having sex, but I think he must have but his penis into me for 10 seconds MAX (me thinking it was his finger.. ) This was on the 17 march.
Could he have ejaculated inside me, he didn't put it in fully? How would you know if he did ejaculate?
I asked but him but he said no, but i still can't shake the feeling.

I'm due for my period around the 3rd of April.
On the 21 march, I had brownish- pinkish discharge, today (23) is the second day.
I don't think this is my period since the urine is till yellow and it's not that heavy.

Possible symptoms- very mild stomach ache (mainly when i think about me bring pregnant, mite be because im stressing a lot about this) and the spotting maybe? and that's about it for now (it's been 2 weeks in total)

The only reason why i think im pregnant is because of the timing, everything fits in (ur supposed to spot around a week).

...dont really know how to put this ... if he put his penis inside u.. wouldnt you have known about it? also.. if it was just the once.. i doubt very much he ejaculated.. you should have a word with him about this as if you said no to sex.. he shouldnt really have done it? xx

 

[Constantstar]

I think you would know if it wasn't his finger!? Of course anytime where no protection is used there's always a possibility of conception. Don't need the man to do the deed and fully. perform! Guess u won't know until u test but as young mum 21 said, if u said no and he's done that- sounds dodgy and not like the kind of boyfriends I'd want. X

 

[Princess81]

Have u never had full sex before? I'm only asking because if u haven't then u would Defo know about it if he had put it inside of u. If he did (even tho u said no) it doesn't matter how long it was for there is always a chance u conceived but as the others have said I'm sure you'd have realised it was his penis and not his finger inside you.

 

[Sparkle24]

Sorry it doubled the post then

 

[Sparkle24]

I agree with the others does sound a bit strange.

You could be stressing and that can make your period late.

If you are late you need to take a test to see if you are pregnant

 

[tinselcat]

Hi Avyah

21st Mar would be only 4 days after the 17th Mar, and even if conception had happened immediately I really don't think you would get implantation bleeding by then. More like 7-10 days after the 17th. So I think this must have another cause.

Hope you get some peace of mind soon

xx