Some bad news! :(

[KJLorraine]

Jenna I am so so sorry to hear your sad news. Thinking of you both xx

 

[kayzee]

oh no!!!!!!!! you poor thing what a horrible thing to have to go through

my thoughts are with you and your oh at this diffcult time

Stay strong luv, dont give up

 

[skairdykat]

OMG jenna I'm so sorry

 

[kellysomer]

My hought are with you.

 

[NooNoo]

for you

Were all here to support you through this horrible time

 

[Robyn_]

im so so so so sorry hunni

my thoughts are with you..
keep your head high

 

[tracey 2]

oh hun, im so so sorry my thoughts go out to you both

you know where we are if you need us at all, please look after yourself

 

[katyk]

Oh I'm so sorry for your loss

 

[SarahB]

I'm so sorry Jenna

 

[okiegirl]

no words will make up for this time but hang on in there n keep trying xxx

 

[sophie-jordan]

jenna im so so so sorry hunni
all my love to you and OH
x sophie x

 

[lozzi]

really sorry to hear the news hun

 

[mummykay]

so sorry Jenna

 

[miffy]

So sorry to hear your sad news

Thinking of you at this difficult time

 

[Gruntie2]

Jenna... i'm so sorry..... !!

 

[jenna]

Firstly i just wanted to say that i really appreciate every ones comments it was so nice to see when i came on here today.

I went to the hospital yesterday where i had a chat with a nurse. We discussed what was going on and she reassured me that most women go through some sort of bleeding during pregnancy and because there were no pain i should be fine. She walked us down to the scaning room where i met another lady who asked me to lay down and lift my top up. I was really nervous and felt really sick. She scanned me and could find anything, she looked really puzzled and at first i thought i didnt have a womb . She asked me to go outside and have something to drink and come back in 30mins. Shes was really nice but kinda like a stricked dinner lady or something.

Anyway i had about 20 cups of water as she said if it didnt work i would have to have an internal. It was weird because i still didnt need a wee after all that water which is unusual (probably because i was nervous). I went back in for the scan and she could see my womb but nothing in it. It was really big too, i couldnt watch really.

She showed me to the toilet and then took me to another room to wait for the nurse again. The nurse came 10 minutes later and she was really lovely. She asked me how i was and told me that its more than likely that bean has passed and thats why we couldnt see anything. There is a chance of ectopic (sp?) but since theres no pain its only a really small chance. She said the 2 chemical pregnancies were just 'errors' and this was just 'one of those things'. She reasured us that we couldnt have done anything to prevent it and said we could ask anything we wanted. I think we were in too much shock to ask but i just wanted to know if we could prevent it happening again and she said it wasnt anything we did but we could see a specialist if it happend again if we wanted.
She told us to wait 2 months and try again and take a urine sample next week to rule out an ectopic (sp?).

I know DH was really upset but didnt want to show it, he said hes glad the hospital staff were so nice and didnt make him feel stupid. It was awful walking out passed all the pregnant couples and you could hear people laughing in the scanning rooms

I'll get there one day.

 

[Sammystar]

Be strong Jenna, take your time.....

 

[Snuggle]

Jenna, I'm so sorry for your loss. I cant imagine how you must be feeling right now. We are all here for you anytime

 

[gemmap27]

Oh no Jenna!

Big Hugs

Thinking of you both!

x
x

 

[ella]

I am so sorry for your loss pet, take care of each other. Of course you will get there