babyhill22
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so to explain a little, I am now 33 weeks pregnant with my second. my first is now almost 19 months.
my other half is the problem! so he decided at the beginning of june that he was going to convert and extend his garage into a bar and gym, and that he was going away for a week abroad for his last week of before baby arrives leaving me working, trying to sort out house out and being full time carer for my son whiles pregnant! then since coming back he has been working and in his spare time working on his garage, watching westham, local bands and playing badminton. he has a guy working on the garage who is taking the piss and he dose nothing about it even tho we are paying him a lot!
he does nothing to help around the house and never looks after our son! I do everything!! he said if I cant do something leave it and he will do it but when I left the carpet cleaning to him he never did it and when I did it he sat and watched me and then went to bed! I talk to him but all he said is when the garage is over it will be better I told you it would be bad for a while.
I feel like I got the shitty end of every stick on the tree!! its been months now and I had my son at 35 weeks so I am ment to be resting, I was told to give up work at 30 weeks as I started contracting but this hasent made him help me at all. and I know this sounds a bit batty but we have had sex once in the hole time I have been pregnant, I cant help but feel I wouldn't resent him as much if he didn't turn me down constantly. I just feel so sorry for my son as he is the one really missing out I had planed he and his daddy were to have a day together as daddy is not in work but now the gut will be round and he will be helping in the garage so my son now has to wait till Monday but I have great reservations that it will happen then!!
im so sorry its such a long rant, but really needed to get it off my chest. and thank you to who ever got this far lol x x x
my other half is the problem! so he decided at the beginning of june that he was going to convert and extend his garage into a bar and gym, and that he was going away for a week abroad for his last week of before baby arrives leaving me working, trying to sort out house out and being full time carer for my son whiles pregnant! then since coming back he has been working and in his spare time working on his garage, watching westham, local bands and playing badminton. he has a guy working on the garage who is taking the piss and he dose nothing about it even tho we are paying him a lot!
he does nothing to help around the house and never looks after our son! I do everything!! he said if I cant do something leave it and he will do it but when I left the carpet cleaning to him he never did it and when I did it he sat and watched me and then went to bed! I talk to him but all he said is when the garage is over it will be better I told you it would be bad for a while.
I feel like I got the shitty end of every stick on the tree!! its been months now and I had my son at 35 weeks so I am ment to be resting, I was told to give up work at 30 weeks as I started contracting but this hasent made him help me at all. and I know this sounds a bit batty but we have had sex once in the hole time I have been pregnant, I cant help but feel I wouldn't resent him as much if he didn't turn me down constantly. I just feel so sorry for my son as he is the one really missing out I had planed he and his daddy were to have a day together as daddy is not in work but now the gut will be round and he will be helping in the garage so my son now has to wait till Monday but I have great reservations that it will happen then!!
im so sorry its such a long rant, but really needed to get it off my chest. and thank you to who ever got this far lol x x x
do you have anyone else family or friend wise who can help support you? Maybe with the baby on the way you need to put ur foot down and tell him that the garage goes on hold until after baby is born and settled? Xx
