Hi hun, thats an awful thing to happen, Thomas was gorgeous if thats him in the picture! No personal experience but my cousin lost her first baby to Sids in 2004, she has gone on to have 3 other children who have all been healthy and know about their big brother who is playing with the angels and making sure they are all ok. Sure the next nine months will be hard for you but everyone on here, personal experience or not, are great for support. xxx