So_hopeful81
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Hi,
This is just a quick rant to explain how utterly fed up I am of so called friends who keep trying to force 'options' down my throat.
Ever since we found out that our daughter has Downs syndrome on Friday, me and my oh have had so called friends pushing the right to abort down our throats. Today I have had it so often.... I am fed up! Do these people seriously not think that if that was what we had chosen to do, it would have been organised by now!
I would never judge someone for thst decision if they were in our situation- so why are these people judging us for not making that decision? What gives them the right to keep pushing and pushing and pushing!!!! I've had enough of it! All we want is support!
I have been in tears tonight over it. One of my oh's mates, who I have now told my oh is never ever allowed to meet my daughter now, even had The audacity tonight to send my oh a text saying he wants to talk without me around sometime this week - as he can't believe that we've really thought this through!!!! Does he seriously think we've thought of anything else since we had the news of high risk the first day! Unbelievable! Then he went on to explain that he actually gives a f@*k about my oh ( I think insinuating that I don't!!!!) and that did we have any idea what this would do to my 4 year old!
I am devastated by people at the moment! They sicken me!!!! I love my daughter growing inside of my tummy! Downs syndrome has not changed that love at all!!!!
This is just a quick rant to explain how utterly fed up I am of so called friends who keep trying to force 'options' down my throat.
Ever since we found out that our daughter has Downs syndrome on Friday, me and my oh have had so called friends pushing the right to abort down our throats. Today I have had it so often.... I am fed up! Do these people seriously not think that if that was what we had chosen to do, it would have been organised by now!
I would never judge someone for thst decision if they were in our situation- so why are these people judging us for not making that decision? What gives them the right to keep pushing and pushing and pushing!!!! I've had enough of it! All we want is support!
I have been in tears tonight over it. One of my oh's mates, who I have now told my oh is never ever allowed to meet my daughter now, even had The audacity tonight to send my oh a text saying he wants to talk without me around sometime this week - as he can't believe that we've really thought this through!!!! Does he seriously think we've thought of anything else since we had the news of high risk the first day! Unbelievable! Then he went on to explain that he actually gives a f@*k about my oh ( I think insinuating that I don't!!!!) and that did we have any idea what this would do to my 4 year old!
I am devastated by people at the moment! They sicken me!!!! I love my daughter growing inside of my tummy! Downs syndrome has not changed that love at all!!!!