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sarah jane

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im nearly 38 wks now and have had no interest in lovemaking in ages have i gone off him or just bcause of pregnacy.....feel real bad for him
 
i cant remember the last time i had sex :shock:
gone off it in a big way was never like it with either of my other 2 dont know what happened this time round :lol:
 
Dont worry hun i think most women go of it esp at your 38 weeks!

no man ever died from lack of sex (despite what thye would have us believe!) i never fancied it in the later stages (or that much during most of pregnancy infact) and he'll need to get used to it as it might be a while before you're at it again (excuse the phrasing!) after the baby comes.

just reassure him that he will get his end away again one day, he's just got to be patient!

x
 
We didn'y have cuddles for most of my pregnancy but did the deed twice at the end to encourage little one to arrive. We haven't been naughty since Jamie's arrival either, far too many stitches & too sore to even think about it, not to mention being too tired!
Luckily my hubby understands completely (unless he's a good liar & has some leggy blonde hidden away! :shock: ) & he said we'll only do it when i'm good & ready. I want to, just still scared about it at the mo. Poor ole hubster!! :lol:
 
Hi, was just reading through and i just have to ask now.
Ya see mine is totally the opposite way, and its actually pretty upsetting for me. do you think it might be because he thinks he will be hurting the baby or something, or just the fact that i have a massive bump that isnt very attractive? Hes still very loving and romantic, just doent seem to want to bother with the other!

Sarah xx
 
Its completely normal. The first pg I could take or leave it but this pg i will take, take, take :D
 
So is it the fact your pregnant that makes girls go off it

Hourmones...

Tiredness...

Pain...?

Because i know its quite common for the 'sex life' to suffer during pregnancy for many reasons..

By the way, is it true that after around 4 months women get unusually extra horney...

Its just that i seen it on an episode of friends when rachel was pregnant, it made me laugh, but is it true :think:
 
i think guys would be put off sex if they had a fully grown baby in their penis. :talkhand: Its just the same for ladies :)
 
I was really horny in the first few weeks.... :oops:

Am right off it now, dont even like cuddles.

Poor OH.... im sure he can find something on the internet to amuse him for 5 mins lol
 
jenna said:
i think guys would be put off sex if they had a fully grown baby in their penis. :talkhand: Its just the same for ladies :)

Ouch !
 
violet-glow said:
I was really horny in the first few weeks.... :oops:

Am right off it now, dont even like cuddles.

Poor OH.... im sure he can find something on the internet to amuse him for 5 mins lol

Why dont you like cuddles :eek:

I thought now more than ever girls would really like to be cuddled
 
I never lost my sex drive while pregnant. Well I did in the 1st trimester when I was being sick but thats it lol :oops:

Rachel xx
 
At about 16-18 weeks you have a sort of there bump. Andi was quite self conscience then. But now i have a fully formed bump im ok! Alex loves my new shape!
 
aww thats good :)

rich loves mine to but i dont like showing it incase he goes off me :( im just being silly
 
Aww hun. Dont worry. Be proud of your new body! I am! :D
 
hevwithbump said:
aww thats good :)

rich loves mine to but i dont like showing it incase he goes off me :( im just being silly

Ahh dont be silly !!

I'm sure he loves you for you, and evern more so because that little bump you are carrying in your belly is his baby !!

I wouldnt go off my g/f when she gets big
 
JMC said:
violet-glow said:
I was really horny in the first few weeks.... :oops:

Am right off it now, dont even like cuddles.

Poor OH.... im sure he can find something on the internet to amuse him for 5 mins lol

Why dont you like cuddles :eek:

I thought now more than ever girls would really like to be cuddled

Dunno just dont want him near me at the moment,
rather get on with things and have my own space :?
I go through this all the time, think OH is used to it.
 
JMC said:
hevwithbump said:
aww thats good :)

rich loves mine to but i dont like showing it incase he goes off me :( im just being silly

Ahh dont be silly !!

I'm sure he loves you for you, and evern more so because that little bump you are carrying in your belly is his baby !!

I wouldnt go off my g/f when she gets big

he even says he loves my bump :dance:

i think im to hormonal! lol

jmc what do you think of stretch marks thought i would ask from a blokes point of view if you dont mind me asking :)
 

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